right this may be a bit of a long story...
I recently got in contact with a girl, who Before i was in my 4 and a half year relationship I was pretty close with. We had made out in the past, and was always with each other. When I got in my relationship I lost contact with her.
anyway we start talking about 3 weeks ago on facebook, We was talking for hours and agreed to meet for a drink a couple of days later. However every day leading up to it, she would text and initiate conversations, and we would text for hours. When we met, we had a drink and a meal, and stayed in the bar talking until they kicked us out to close. We talk about all sorts, and are sometimes flirty. I also get alot of IOIs off her. anyway, she has a bf, so i decide not to make any moves, and see what happens. She text me every day that week, and invited me around for movies that sunday, I go round, and im there from 11 am until 11pm, watching movies. again I make no move, as im waiting for her to initiate as she has bf, however again, as far as i can tell IOIs are there and clear, such as looking around me and laughing frequently during movies, joking around, lingering eye contact for a slight second longer than normal, poking and a plenty banter, she also smiles alot at me. she also barely talked about her bf at all. When I leave, its just a quick hug though.
The next day I text her in the morning with a the aliens are coming opener, and no response, i also realize shes deletd her FB. She text me about 9 that evening to say her bf dumped her, and she was distraught. but the next text was inviting me to a uni grad ball in his place, and asked if id mind sharing a bed with her as its a double bed shes booked.
She texts every day, and we will text for 3 or 4 hours most days, wel talk about anything and everything, from stuff like hobbies, interests all the way to sex.
I met her yesterday again for movies, and she said she had been upset, and talked about how she was upset for a bit. her mum also said she had been very upset during the week. however when watching a couple movies again, there were some IOIs there. she also talked about 'what shall we do next time we meet'. There was a point Her and me were in the kitchen talking and it was getting dark, and the mum walked in, and said 'im not disturbing anything am I?' whcih made me wonder if she has said soemthing to her mum?
I didnt want to make a move, and risk being a rebound, though i know iv risked being in friend zone.
we are going to this ball this thursday night, and im wondering what to do, hit on her and try it on, talk to her about how we feel about each other or just carry on?
any advice would be great! iv not had a scenario like this before.