Lost a girl to another guy, is there any way to salvage this



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 6:58 pm 
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This is a long shot but here it goes

This girl I've known for a while showed me a ton of interest and I ignored her and found her annoying for some reason. Never in my life has a girl showed me the amount of interest this girl did, it was way too much and I was not used to it. Now that she's moved on I'm starting to become interested in her. Classic right, its my fucking fault too. Anyhow, shes been on a few dates with this guy, theyre "in love" or whatever, would you guys bother picking her up?

We hang out 1-2x a week, shes in my tight knit group of friends and I dont know the guy shes seeing. I know it seems like im trying to break them up, but honestly, I dont care. Please dont mention "morals" or whatever, I just dont care about this other guy. She says the only thing she doesnt really like about him is that he's a little needy, and always wants to hang out

Just for the fuck of it, I've started the recommended process of exiting the friend zone. Less contact, being busy, letting her know I'm seeing other girls. Talking about the girls Im hanging out with with my guy friends and making sure she can hear. Shes showing a few signs of interest but it could just be friendliness.

Thoughts?


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 7:47 pm 
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No morals here, just some advice. Indeed, classic that she shows interest in you and when she bails its vica versa. However, if you found her to be clingy and too much then, would you really want to have her in your life knowing what you know?

If she is showing interested while she is with this other dude, keep doing what you are doing because it seems to be working but escalate at the same time. Also, be careful to not complicate matters within the friends group. That shit can fire back like a motherfucker.
Yeah I wouldnt mind, back when she liked me I never knew about this whole community, I was an AFC with no idea how to escalate/make a move. I've read up over the course of this year, put some of this stuff to use and its crazy good.

Im sure I'd do it right if she showed interest again. I'm going to keep escalating slowly as to not creep her out, I see her way too often and have known her way too long to risk being a creep.

Thanks!


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