(I wanted to post that on the PUA lounge but i don't have the amount of 50 posts so...)


Hi guys !

Today is a big day for me, I decided to quite masturbation, I just got heartbroken and amoged/got my girlfriend (which i didnt bang), Stolen by my best friend. The amount of anger knowing these informations at once, Made me punch a door, So hard that i made a hole in it, And my wrist hurts...

I sat down, lighted a cigarette and asked myself that very important and usual question. What i'm i doing wrong, Well i thought logically about it and i found out that i made 2 mistakes. This will help you guys I guess or i hope it will avoid that kind of situation for AFCs (like myself ^^').

Mistake Number 1 : The girl wanted to have sex at a certain point of time, I WAS doing my job very well, i wasn't dependant, I did what i wanted and she was just drooling over me. When the moment arrived she was at my city, we talked on facebook, She wanted to have sex!

Okay i live in Morocco. Which means i'm 21 and still living with my parents, in my case i'm living with my grand father and my aunt. In other words my grand father and aunt are old people and ,traditions and religion in Morocco, State that i can"t have sex outside the organisation of marriage. I can"t fuck her at my grand fathers house. I have nowhere else to fuck her, I don't know friends that live alone (poor social circle).

I'll summarize the first Mistake this way : She asked me for sex, She lowered her value, and i didn't respond! Which crept her out, and gave her the feeling of being a bitch. after that incident talking about sex seemed weird and it stopped. So Guys, you have to take every opportunity as soon as it fucking shows up, if you have the opportunity to sexually escalate, Never be a pussy about it or it will fuck everything up. If a girls offers you sex, you got to do your best to fuck her, this way even if it doesn't happen,at least you reacted NORMALLY.

Mistake Number 2 : I have a friend, that i called best friend, who already fucked up with me last year, By making me have the most painful emotional breakdown that i've ever knew in my life, and it changed my perception of girls completely. However it didn't change my kindness, and i was still accepting the reality that, I can forgive people, and everything will just be the same over again. So i forgiven the guy and we became "best" friends again, Smoking pot together, travelling, drinking, doing awesome stuff.

Okay now we get to the problem. The girl i talked about added the "best friend" on facebook, or he added her, anyways they became friends on facebook and started liking eachothers pictures, she's giving him IOIs, I got it all figured out something was happening! So i went and told him something that you can only ask a bro to do. I told him : "Hey do you know that girl? - Yes she's my friend - yeah it also happens that she's the one i talked to you about last time and that i'm really into her - Oh really hhhhh! and? - And i didn't bang her yet so if u mind, let me do what i'm intended for then ur free - That's not of my business (laughs).

Okay it seems normal until She came on private conversation and told me : Listen, i don't want to talk about sex anymore, i'm no more interested in having sex with you and could never put that up again. the reason? they already had sex.

I'll Summarize Mistake number 2 as : We must have male friends, You know bros to hang out with and just chill have some beers and watch football. But you should always keep in mind that Males are creatures armed with Penises and pairs of balls, and its normal for a guy to loose control of his emotions, and his sexual desire, and Fuck your wife if she's hitting on him. Seriously guys Never open up about your fucked up experiences with girls, of neither talk about girls you just met, or that you are planning to fuck, To YOUR MALE FRIENDS. I insist! It shows insecurity, it shows them that you are simply loosing, So their animal instinct takes over their mind and they might end up Breaking your heart, and hurting your feelings, And seriously loosing a friend is the hardest thing to experience ever.



I know I made a long long speech, But i just wished to share these freshly learned lessons of social interactions. I not feeling very well right now My cigarettes pack is empty and my wrist is still hurting, But at least, I'm Very Glad I didn't lower my value, I told the girl that she can delete me if she wanted, that it might be the best idea. and i left it this way, BUT for my ex best friend? Guess what! I'm still talking to him like if nothing happened, And i just keep laughing and smiling and DHVing, And i just watch him feel a little sad and guilty, As i keep my value higher than him.

So basically if you reached this line, I thank you alot for reading all of this and I'm glad to share this with a community that i know will understand.

Cheers Guys!

Things you should have learned from this experience:

1. Get creative when you don't have a place to have sex
2. Get better friends

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hmm, was she actually your girlfriend? or just some random girl hitting on you? cause you really can't blame her for sleeping with other guys if she's single, she wanted to get laid, you didn't, she went and got laid, oh well big deal, any other guy or girl would do the same who actually has options, nothing to be mad about, doesn't make you any lesser or anything, just can't go rejecting people if you want to sleep with them, alot of people are sensative and they get all butthurt over it when it isn't a big deal

also, buddies don't fuck your girlfriends... that doesn't happen, if he is like that, he isn't your friend, simple as that, you can control the hole your dick goes into, it isn't hard, and if that hole is your buddy's girlfriend, then you're a huge faggot... just sayin

She is my girlfriend so that is actually the reason why i'm mad, we don't leave in the same city and when she used to come to mine she made me know. This time she came and she made me know after she got Fucked.

As for the friend, In Morocco a lot of men suffer from sexual frustration because f the laws and everything and probably a majority of men have sex only with hookers and bitches. So people with a little weak personnality are , as i said, able to Fuck your wife if she hits on them. That's why i don"t ever trust anyone again about Women, I'll start do my own thing.