I have two questions regarding this topic.


1. How do you respond to compliments from a girl you are gaming?

This happend to me yesterday. While speaking she said I looked good in that suit. Completely caught me off guard. I responded with something like this: Well yeah, but I would love to get a tailored suit. Then she started talking about tailored suits etc.

I realise in heinsight that the situation could have been handeled much better.


2. When and how often do you compliment a girl you are gaming?

When I was a AFC in a LTR I complimented my girl each fucking day. That didn't work out well, so I know that is not the answear. However the girl I talked about in question 1 have given me a handfull of compliments, but I have not given anyone back (verbally that is). I have done a lot of KINO, but no verbal compliments.[/i]

1) "Thank you".

2) Do you notice something about her that deserves a compliment? Then give her one.

Thank you is usually the best way to handle this but be casual about it and carry on with what they/you were saying.

The problem with "Well yeah, but I would love to get a tailored suit" is that

1. You're not happy with what you have (DLV)

2. Kinda makes it sound like you can't afford a tailored suit (DLV)

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Thanks for your input guys.

Lesson learned!