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when you wanna bang a co-worker, the process is fairly easy
-ask girl on a ''date'' and use the word ''date'', this will screen her for interest/dis-interest, this is a very low level of compliance to reach for a girl that knows she has to see you again, and even a girl who is dis-interested will potentially say yes and go on a date for fun
not only does this screen, but it gives you a passive acceptance to a sexual frame (passive permission from her to escalate, without running the risk of an awkward situation/problem at work revolving around hitting on co-workers)
-once on date, have a good time, charm her up good, pick a spot close to your place, invite her back home for a drink at the end of the date (second screener)
if she comes back, make out with her and go for the gold, if she doesn't screen to go to your house, simply make your goal of the night to make the envening better for the both of you, kiss her and try to end the night on a high note, tell her you had a great time and you'd like to see her again
-if the girl shows interest in you for going on a date, but starts flaking/canceling or trys to tell you about how much she likes you but can't, don't start taking that as your cue to hit on her hardcore at work, just maintain your frame that you are interested in her while being professional and normal, being the same guy you were before you asked her out, rather then the new creepy hit on you try to escalate on you at work guy, just be patient, and if she does like you, she will eventually go out with you, just leave the offer on the table and don't press her to hard or start acting weird and needy as if she ''has to do it'', she doesn't have to do anything, don't get all butthurt and impatient if she has some other guy and doesn't want to tell you about it and it is preventing her from going out with you, just meet other girls outside of work when you see a flake to keep you busy so that your mind does not focus on something that doesn't need focus
keep shit at your job professional, save the macking and gaming and charming etc. for outside the office
no point in judging these stupid hair twirls and preens, and eye contact, and her having a tamagotchi phone, etc. it's a good way to look for approach invites, but realistically it can mean something, and it can also mean fuck all, test compliance rather then looking for IOI's, if you don't know if a girl is interested, see if she walk talk to you, let you touch her, and if she will go out and be alone with you 1 on 1, if she meets that criteria then she has some good potential
GOOD LUCK
Well thank you..