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-Knocked on girls dorms
"hey.. (smile)(superman stance) we're new here... wanna grab lunch with us".. (they say they've already gotten lunch or are goin later) maybe i should add in a curiosity hook in there?
-sat next to chicks at lunch
used DHV story on how i saw someone kick a helpless cat while i was off campus and how i pushed them away and took the cat back home to its owner... than i asked them about themselves to get them to invest more into me, I've even used some canned push/pull lines.... I get the number, but I'm not getting many IOIs or many texts back. I don't know what I'm doing wrong here. I think its because they see me as an option, I have no clue. But anyone who thinks they can help would be great. Mentor even.
Your coming off to strong. Randomly asking a girl for lunch will work maybe 5% of the time. She doesn't know you, even if you are both new, she still doesn't know your name or anything. Why not knock and ask to borrow a stapler or something.
You: Hey, by any chance do you have a stapler, I need to hand in an assignment today and can't find one anywhere.
Her: Yeah sure, it's right over here.
You: Oh perfect, I'm "your name" by the way, I'm new here and living down the hall in ###.
Her: I'm "her name", your new where are you from?
You: Blah blah blah
Her: Blah blah blah
You: You know what, haven't grabbed lunch all day so I'm going to head out. Want to come?
Her: Yes or no...
See how she gets to know your name, where you live, where your from, etc. etc. from starting with something simple. It seems a lot better to me at least then just saying: "HEY IM NEW, WANNA GRAB LUNCH! (SUPERMAN STANCE)"
As for your second attempt story, I think it was kind of random and corny. But I don't really have enough information to declare that. You should have used a story relating to the cafeteria at lunch.
You: I hope you didn't buy that sandwich from the cafeteria
Her: Yeah I did, why?
You: Ohh well the other day I ordered a sub and there was a girl in the back working sneezing everywhere!
Her: EWW really?
From what I can tell in your post, your approaches need some improvement. They both seemed too random and corny. Build up.