So I had sex with this girl a week ago and we've been texting since then even though she's on holiday right now. We were discussing past relationships and things like that. She's the first girl I've had sex with where I didn't want her to just stop touching me afterwards. We were talking about how as people we can both be quite emotionally detached as a result of being cheated on in the past and she said she's scared of having another boyfriend. I told her 'the first few times I had sex I just wanted them to stop touching me afterwards.' Then I realised that she's the only girl where I didn't feel that way. The question is should I tell her that or not? The way she talks she isn't interested in having a relationship, not with me but in general; we haven't actually discussed taking things further. So should I just not say anything and move on or should I casually tell her 'actually I think you're the only girl where I just wanted them to stop touching me after sex'?

Why spell things out? Its a far more seductive quality to just be in the moment and allow things to unfold. There's really nothing you have to say explicitly that you can't do implicitly. If you enjoy holding each other after sex, go with it, no need to tell the other person.