I have been seeing her for like 4 months now..and we have recently fucked twice in the past month. She calls me one day and says that she cant have sex with me anymore because she thinks shes becoming a whore....She has feelings for me(admitted it) but she does not want to get into a relationship because her last one was abusive and its hard for her to trust men again. When shes drunk she has no problem expressing her feelings but when shes sober its a whole different story. She also said that if she keeps doing it with me shes going to get more feelings since friends with benefits never works.....Anyways the main thing i want to know is how can i convince that shes not a whore so i can get the sex started again? I also want a relationship but she always tells me shes not ready and needs time.....

She's not "worried about getting feelings for you" - women want sex! Shocker? Not really. She's scared you're getting feelings for her when ALL she wants is sex! Stop being beta, tighten your game up. "FTOW" - and be indifferent. Essentially she's shit-testing you for weakness. You're failing. Be alpha.

Cheers, Confidence.

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I don't f*ck fatties

You can't convince her. Convincing in and of itself displays weakness and neediness.

I doubt that is the real reason she doesn't want to have sex with you any more though. There's probably another reason. Why would she become a whore by fucking you? Is she fucking someone else? Has she fucked a bunch of other guys? Stop pushing for a relationship. Don't mention it.

I'd say go out with her somewhere, have a great time, go back to yours or hers and do it again. If she resists, you've got to move on as there's something else going on here. Either she lost interest (even though she says she's developing feelings) or she's seeing another guy. This is really a bullshit excuse. DON'T react to it. Imagine you have two other girls you are fucking. Would you really care that much about this one here?

Yes, along with a soft next!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Tell her "No your not a whore because you have sex with me, your a whore because your a women"

hahaha

then wait for her reaction lol

I had a girl tell me "It was just one time thing, we should not do that again"

I told her "That's all good, but if you try anything with me, I am getting a restraining order "

This was over text. Next time we met up, it was on.

Point is, what the other guys are saying about not trying to convince, there right.