We have been talking about it, just want to get your opinions? I really love my gf! I desire her more than any other women and would never cheat but a threesome would be amazing! The only thing is her ground rules are that only she can touch the other women, seems like a fair request although Im not sure how a its a threesome then? lol its more of a 2 1/2 some haha I also wonder if it is fair that she can touch the girl but I cant? yes they are the same sex but its still bringing a third party into the bedroom.


How do you guys feel about threesomes while in a relationship?

I personally have a fantasy about a threesome with my GF and her roommate.
Most definitely, it's not gonna happen.

Some ground rules for threesomes:
- the earlier in the relationship the better (there are less feelings involved, so less jealousy and less potentially dangerous fallouts)
- the girl does 90% of the work. as a guy, you make her comfortable with the idea and handle logistics

here it seems that it's your idea to go for it, and she is not enthusiastic about it. plus, how long have you been together for? be warned, even if you do talk her into it, there might be fallout later down the road (jealousy, desire for a MMF threesome, ...)

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we have been together a long time! almost 4 years, when she gets turned on she starts talking about it, She once told me she has always thought about being with another women but was not sure if it was something she would actually like or not.

I always advised against threesomes because they often end badly but the more I we talk about it I really don't think it would ruin our relationship...perhaps I am wrong.

Don't do it man. I have a feeling this might not end up well. You have her right? So just stick to her.

If you have a fetish for threesome. Watch porn. Keep it simple bro!

seriously bro dont do it because you dont know what well happen next. but i'll tel u that if you both have a desire to have sex with others then go to a swinger lounge. i've done that with my ex here in toronto and it was great! at first we both were very nervous and thought it was a very stupid idea but when we went there everyone was nice to us and we made alot of friends. after 6 times of going there we both wanted to have sex with a couple who were together more than 7 years and we did and we loved it, i was not at all jealous seeing by ex gf with that guy because i was with his gf. i never thought i would be swinger but i am now . i know its weird but try it talk to her i will promise u that if u go there u and her will love it.

Hell no! No other guys is fucking my gf lol I told her very clearly that I would only have a threesome with her and another girl and only if she was willing and thought it was something she would enjoy! no guys will ever get involved! she also has no interest in banging another guy which is Im glad!!! and the reason I want a threesome is not because I am bored or want to bang another girl (my gf is hot and amazing in bed!) its because I think it would be hot to do this together! Its something I want to share with her, She doesn't want me to touch the other girl because she thinks she would get very jealous and I can understand this...I would feel the same although if she gets to touch the girl its seems kind of un fair lol

I think the only way it can work is to set ground rules and agree 100% on them!

LOL look im not pressuring u to go there, not at all! when i went to the lounge i saw couples flirting with my girlfriend and me and honestly i was uncomfortable and i told them "no thanks" and if u say that they will understand and leave. and i kept saying to myself that No Man will ever touch my gf!(i meant it)
me and my ex-gf were against having sex with others, we went there just for a laugh to see who and what are "Swingers". when we went there we became in love with it because everyone were nice, well mannered and respected each other. the reason we loved the club was because it was different than any other clubs in downtown were girls are sluts expect u to buy them a drink etc. anyways we went there the 2nd time and made alot of friends who had no intention of having sex with us, they were doctors, professional athletes,actor,actresses and business men/woman. im dont have a gf now but i do have out with them alot, go to parties, they invite me to their cottages etc. the 3rd time we went there we met 2 couples who were dating for 7 years and they were very rich, they both loved each other cared about each other and the guy kept telling me there is no one that would take his gf place. the 6 time we went there i had no idea why and how i wanted to have sex with his girlfriend even my ex-gf wanted him!! all im saying is that its a very nice place. thats it!