Im visiting family in Europe this summer. I started seeing this girl beginning of summer, and things were great. We would meet almost every night when I was in her city, and even though in the beginning it was hard, I worked around the fact that she was playing hard to get. Every time we were together would turn into a makeout session Fastforward. I went away for two weeks on vacation (in Greece), and we speak a few times on facebook, but not too often-- limited internet. Two weeks go by, and now Im in her city again for a few more days. Yesterday I text her (not gunna lie, I was kind of excited to see her) : "Hey, where are you tonight?" No response. This is coming from a girl who would call me out every day, and whos responses came back at me before I even put the phone down. Since I'm here for only a couple days, (normally I wouldn't do this) I message her again the next day on fb:

DM: "Hey Im in the city here to say my goodbyes to everyone. Hit me up so we can meet "
HER (3 hours after seeing the message) : "Hey, if i can i'll let you know "

What gives? I havent responded yet and am wondering if I should. I need advice on this situation. What should I say, and what can I do if she does text/call? The worst part of this whole situation is that I cant believe she doesn't even have time to say goodbye. I feel like just saying f*** it and peacing it without talking to her again.

Thanks

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I think she was all caught up with you while you were there and once you left she came down to her senses. You probably had a shot a F closing her and you blew it and now she realizes that you were just a "summer fling" per se.

Anyways, you also came in too needy was you came back with your text. You should have been a little more humorous and cheesy. Girls love that shit.

So instead of saying "Hey where are you tonight?"
you should have said, "Hey smelly! Feels good to be back. Hope you didn't miss me too much lol:)" you get the drift...

she sounds like she isn't really interested. with her DM

I would respond saying, "Sounds Good."

and let it be...

Give it another try. You have nothing to lose. Its not as if you are going to see her again.

Yeah to add a bit, logistics were always a problem with this girl because she had some weird curfew because she messed up in school. Also her parents were always home, and my house was always full too. I'll probably see her at the start of next summer in the earliest.

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