Hey guys,

Theres this real cool girl at work that i know (its mainly a solo field type job). Shes worked here a month, and im her (miniboss) but only for 1 more week, and then its over for me (just summer job). We both smoke pot, so one day i asked her "when are we getting baked?" to which she laughed and replied "lets later today, call me at X time and ill roll one"

So i was like all happy about this outcome.

I called her and she was cold to me "wtf, i didnt think you were actually gonna call me... i hoped you would but didnt think you would, but ok lets" I played it cool, and didnt really have an idea of where to go (we both live with parents) so i left it up to her, and she told me to call her later, which i did with no answer. But she called me back like 30mins later and told me she can meet in a bit with her friend, so i agreed.

Her friend obv cockblocked anything... so we just smoked and talked about work shit for a while and went our separate ways.

I'm not really sure what to read from this. I only have a week, and just wanna bang her. I had a chance 2 weeks ago we were working late into the evening and i suggested we do our stuff together so its faster, to which she agreed, but i didnt make a move then... prob my biggest mistake.

Do I still have a chance? Am i friend zoned? Is she just overly-friendly? Please help!

Well you need to sort out logistics if you're going to bang her.

And you need to fucking escalate and not give shit, I know you're prolly thinking I don't want to fuck things up etc... but guys who get laid don't give a shit about the outcome, they just act on their intent. If your intent is to lay her, then escalate sexually.

You only have a week left there, and if things don't work out, you'll never see her again.

You're right man. I always think of "what if i fuck this up?" and nothing happens at the end. I had the "don't give a fuck about her" mind set st first.... but it kinda went away. Like I said, I had the best opportunity earlier, but fucked it up myself.

But what would you analyze from her responses to me? Sometimes she shows good IOIs (or I think at least lol), or sometimes none at all...

Girls like guys who make plans. Find a place where its just the two of you, invite her, smoke weed, get drunk and bang her.
If she resists, act like you don't give a fuck and try escalating again later.

Bottomline - She would be gone in a week and you have nothing to lose.

stop getting distracted from your task at hand, and lead instead of reacting

You agreeing to meet her was bad IMO. If you decided when to meet your controlling the frame and thats what you want

Only way you'll have a chance at banging her is by caring less. You're too outcome focused and so long as you are chances are it wont happen.

Totally agree w. this.

Woman = REACT; Man = ACT
(credit TD)

Thanks for the input guys.

I got a few more questions....

Earlier in the week was her bday, and i didnt wish her hbd as i was trying to distance myself from her. Until then id always touch her, and she always let me, but never touched me back... until after her bday... i think she was trying to get me to touch her again? I dunno. I've talked to her for a bit the last 2 days at work, but always with other employees nearby.

I have one more day that ill see her at work, and wanna bang her. She works late by herself... would i look needy if i were to chill with her while shes working and im off (like for an hour or 2)? Cuz its the only way something will happen, as we both live with our parents..

Honestly, im still shy, and just dunno what to do. Can someone guide me please?