I might play the game in the wrong order, what a suck...

When I played with a girl, I felt that she's not attracted to me enough. But that time is kind of going into the friend zone.

So I creat a jealousy situation, i.e. I phoned and flirted with some girl, just in front of the target. The positive effect was, she suddenly felt the attraction, and gave many more than obvious IOIs.

But I guess the "to be friend zone" was actually the "Comfort" step. So maybe I should not use jealousy that time?

The situation now is that, the girl likes me, and permits any kino, even sex(once), but she hesitates to "be with me". She says that she's afraid being hurt("dumped") by me in the future, considering that I have so many choices. Even though I've said many times that all I want is her, and I'm willing to quit all the other choice, and just love her, she still claims that she feels insecure, and still does not agree to get into the relationship.

Any suggestion on this situation? Thanks a lot.

Quick question that I keep having to ask guys.

Why the fuck are you wanting to be with this chic!!?

Why can't you or other guys just keep shit on a fuck-buddy level,at least until the girl WANTS to enter into an LTR!?

Why are men so willing to chase after girls for LTR's!?

Your 1st.priority should be to f-close the target,and have her as a booty-call/fuck-buddy.

Then if SHE(not you)decides that she's ready for an LTR,then and only then should you as the guy give it consideration.

But stop being the female and wanting to be with the girl when she doesn't want to be with you(yet).

Some advice that you might want to follow.

WTF are you doing saying to any girl, that all you want is her!!?

That is a one-way ticket to pedestal-ville.

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Very helpful advices, thanks a lot!!!