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 Post subject: Help me get my GF back
PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:26 pm 
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I need advice guys. I was dating a girl recently - we had an amazing connection - the best I've ever experienced. Suddenly out of the blue her ex contacted her and she broke it off with me saying she is unsure of her feelings now her ex is in the picture. Apparently her ex doesn't even know if he wants to be with her.
I need to get her back. I know this is AFC oneitis but I've been with loads of women and none of them were as good as this one.
Any techniques I could try? Any advice?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 2:54 am 
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Many people will to say move on and that you don't need the drama, but let's be serious, you're obviously pretty invested in her.

Keep going and act like nothing has changed. Do you believe you're worth more than her ex? I hope so. She doesn't need that dickhead when she has you, right? Show her that you are the higher value guy. If she mentions her ex, do not put him down, but instead change the subject and make sure she has a good time with whatever you're doing together. The mentality to have in this situation is that you don't care what happens, regardless of who she pursues.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 10:52 am 
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Cheers Snarg - sounds about right. However I'm not currently in contact with her - I could phone her but I wouldn't bump into her unless I arranged to go meet her. How could I handle getting her to agree to see me again?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 11:10 am 
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Only a short time - 3 weeks. Pretty intensively though - we hung out virtually every day.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 11:21 am 
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Thanks Tony. I'll give it a try.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 6:16 pm 
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You want to win your girl back, you must be ready to fight for her! It does sound AFC but shit sometimes you have to put the material aside and just go with your heart! There was a reason for her being with you. It is a huge risk and you might end up being hurt, but you will learn. Just be a gentleman, make her laugh whenever you are in contact with her, and lastly make her feel like she is wanted and special.

P.S. if she does end up going with her ex bf I would use the straw man technique.

Best of Luck My Friend.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 6:38 pm 
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You can learn a lot from my experience.
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I think everyone here is giving you good advice, follow it and you should be alright. I think its time you start looking out for other girls. Remember you only have her, she has options - her ex or you. For you, I know, not a very good situation to be in.


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