Hello one and all, Im not too sure if I understand the DHV stuff correctly, I mean I know the theory but I dunno if I apply it properly, when im talking to a girl, I seem to just say whatever comes into my head (I think just though nervs) I am in the army, and I useally tell woment that im a soldier...but is this good or bad like I can see how its protection value, but at the same time we do have reputations...also I find it hard to think of DHV stories, so if someone can give me like a list that needs to go in one and I try to make you up so you guys can evaluate it for me? Im still new to this so need all the help I can get unfortunatly! Still we were all new once right?
Thanks for all your help, and Im learning loads about game...if it helps you guys I know all about body languge, graphology, and cold reading, as well as a vast amount of knowlege in health and fitness and anything to do with human biology and pharmacuiticles, I dunno if I can use these as DHV's or not?

Tuck

Being in the army really can't serve as a DLV, so don't worry about that. Just don't tell stories about how you threw a barrel full of puppies off a cliff in Iraq. Just kidding.

We can't exactly give you a list of things that will make you look good since we don't know you. You need to stop and think about what would make you, specifically, stand out when compared to every other guy. What skills do you have that set you apart? Also, instead of focusing on stories that serve as a DHV, just try to think of things that might sound interesting and spark her interest. Alternatively, tell her some funny stories. I know enough people in the army to know that a lot of hilarious shit happens, so think of some stuff. Just make sure you don't seem to be trying too hard.

In the end, there's no point in having a list of "go-to" lines or stories that you use for every girl. Just keep practicing so that things like this come naturally.

ah ok, thanks very much for the advice, useally when I tell a girl that Im in an army she grabs her friend and they both like look at me and smile then go back its sorta like an awkard silence, so is it good that there grabbing there friends or is it a sort of save me from this?

You could use that opportunity to joke around with them or even turn the tables on them a bit based on their reaction. "Relax. I said I'm a soldier, not an axe murderer."

ahh yea I never thought of it like that, cheers man, opened my eyes to a whole new way of looking at the game, ill report back how it goes!