Me and my friend met these two very hot girls at the beach. Later we went to a club and even though they were set on not drinking they got completely trashed and we both made out like crazy. One of the kept telling me how she doesn't do vacation hook ups (we both live far away from each other)and she could even help me pick up other chicks etc even though she really liked me. i kept teasing her tht she was harrassing me and that she's the one who wants to sleep with me. Anyway i ended up at her place since i lost my keys but both of us passed out and didn't have sex. Next day she became cold and kept tellng me how she never does this, is only looking for serious stuff and feels terrible. I told her that she needs to relax and live a little. We made out a bit but she didn't meet me in the evening and i can feel i'm losing her. We have common friends which i'm guessing triggers her asd even more. I'm thinking i should start ignoring her but am starting to have oneitis as well. Anu tips? Thanks

Tip number 1 - forget the oneitis!!!

you should just go have fun, there are loads of more options out there and you have to make sure she knows that aswel, if shes only into relationships, thats great, but if you game her good enough she will want you!

Tips to get her into bed:
A good one is bring her to your place, bring her into your bedroom so she feels comfortable in there but take her back out to the sitting room or kitchen or somewhere else, then later when you bring her into the room again she will feel a little more comfortable!... just have a reason to bring her in there in the first place, have something set up that you want to show her

so after that when you get into your room a second time, sit on the bed with her and do some future pacing... tell her that you would like to meet up with her after vacation and maybe someday ye can!... escalate using kino and start kissing her, if you try take off her cloths and says no, im not going to sleep with you, just say "who says were going to sleep" and smile

kiss her again, and if she stops you, get up and walk out of the room, like a punishment ( go get a drink of water and come back into the room and try again, remember, you don't want to have sex with her, she wants it with you! you have to convey that sex isn't a big thing to you!! this is what will have her turned on!

Hope I helped!!

Synth.

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