Hey!

I have been talking to this girl for about 6 months, which I met at my school! I just finished high-school this spring, but she has one more year to go. But I need a little help, since I'm not so experienced in the art of picking up girls.

It started in february, when I met her at a party. We had never spoken before, and we ended up making out later that night. Since then we have been in touch on SMS and Facebook. We have almost chatted on Facebook everyday since February. But nothing else have happend! I feel like I am the one who always starts the conversations, but she seems to enjoy to speak with me. And before the summer I told her that I had a small crush on her. But then she didn't answerd, and we didn't speak for about 1,5 month, before she suddenly took contact with me again. This is just two weeks ago. And last weekend we made out again, but I'm afraid she was too drunk to remember it. But I feel like I am the one who always take the initiative, and she leaves me with a feeling that I am bothering her sometimes. But when i retreat, she takes contact with me again.

So I desperatly need help! Is it possible that she likes me, even though she knows I like her, but she haven't said anything? What should I do to find out if this girl likes me? And how can I play to make her more into me and take more initiative? How should I continue the conversations with her?

I really likes the girl, so thanks for all help!!

You answered your own question...

She made out with you, of course she likes you...

Yeah, but she was really drunk! And my bestfriend said she also tried to make-out with him. I don't know if I should believe him, cause he lies about stuff like that. But since we made out she have given me very different signals! Sometimes she seems interested, and sometimes not.. I just wanna give her a warning, that I like her but she needs to make up her mind soon, so I don't waste anymore time on her

Although I'm new to this forum I'm not new to this.

Bottom line - she likes you.

two reasons
1. She's playing hard to get, I know this because when you give her all the attention you're giving her what she wants, but when you lessen your contact with her, she'll be thinking "Hope I haven't lost his interest by playing too hard to get" So she'll message you because she wants your attention
2. A lot of people say that when they are drunk they tend to do the things and say the things they want to when sober, so there's another probability.

Good luck dude
Kind regards Jason

have you been drunk before? did it make you unable to make descisions or use logic all together or did it simply lower your inhibitions?

she kissed you and she tried to kiss your friend,
do you find that you are only attracted to one girl and that is it? you're brain shuts off and all of a sudden every other girl is not attractive to you? or would you think it would be practical to assume you are attracted to at least a good % of the female population? is it fair to assume this is the exact same for girls?

now, just because she made out with you doesn't mean kissing is a huge deal to her, but think about it, is making out something you usually want to do with your pleutonic friends?

she has to at least have some for of sexual interest in you, or she wouldn't have been interested in kissing you, drunk or not