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PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2012 4:16 pm 
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What is the best way to introduce yourself to a group of people you have just met at a party, who you have to meet. On a group level and a individual level.
Strong handshake for the men
What to say to the women
How to demonstrate higher value in the situation but break down barriers as well ?

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2012 4:22 pm 
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Read the whole forum and you'll know. Explaining here would take 10 days :)

So when you've read everything it stills depends on the people you meet (age, culture, social level, etc, etc).

General advice would be to be confident whatever you do, I like to act cool and joke around (but overdoing it will bust everything so be carefull).


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2012 9:52 pm 
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There are lots of ways! most people will judge you within the first 5 seconds of meeting you so a lot of it is you look (dress, and grooming), and second what you use to open them....tonality is important!

One of the best lines I ever tired was this: I walked up, took a girls drink and had a sip and then shot her a dirty look, she then looked at me like "wtf" and said "what are doing", I then said "They say we judge people within the first 5 seconds of meeting them, so what do you think?" and then I laughed.

Took some balls but after a minute she was laughing and I got her number. try that one next time your at the club haha


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:58 am 
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haha I couldn't have said it better myself dark one there are SO many ways, direct and indirect, for instance if you see a group of people jamming to a certain song or notice something similar between them, make a less obvious comment towards something about the piece (avoid mr. obvious shit tho lol). For instance if you spot group of girls that are all wearing pumps tell them they must be planning something and give a "heads-up" look to their shoes, girls only wear pumps when they want to look good, so commenting on something like that can open up a conversation line, indirectly if a group of people see you doing something cool, it doesn't even have to be amazing, just unique to you or the setting, its MUCH easier to approach them and just say hi, you don't necissarily even need a snazzy opener (which most of the time is the case as well) because you've already brought yourself to their attention! Just be congruent to your personality and friendly. You don't want to approach with balls and then not have follow through thats congruent. Cheers!

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