Here's a quick problem.

Most of these techniques, advise and routines take place in a party or club environment. And the objective is to have some fun.

Now the problem, from my perspective, is that I do not find parties fun. Noisy, crowded, smokey and with overpriced drinks.

Do you think I ought to fake it? And if so how could I pull it off?

Also, is my attitude somewhat elitist? I should hope not, since I don't look down on parties goers, its just that parties aren't really my thing.

Or, how could I learn to enjoy them?

Cheers guys.

What routines have you seen? Ive only seen about 3 or 4 that require clubs and 200 that just require a girl, I think you may just have a preconceived though about where pua takes place. You can do most of the routines I've seen walking down the street

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Cheers Charblad

I understand that, but in most cases would lead to a party of some sort. Even if I am not practicing routines, I do not think I could fake enjoying myself at a party.

I was wondering if there was any remedy to this.

remedy. Go game girls at school. Work. walking along the road. In the mall. At the grocery store. At your coffee shop. At your local park. On the bus. Ect. Its harder to find places Not to game than it is to find good places. And whoever is telling you to take them to parties isnt a pua. You should be alone on a first date not in a loud club with 50 other people

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Thanks, buddy.

Makes sense.

only when dj hardwell is dropping it.. na kidding.. cmon who doesn't like a good dose of HOUSE music?

yeah don't ever take them to parties.. they go look for new guys.. i mean that's what parties is for isn't it?

Most people are idiots no matter where in the world you are. Including parties, so no you cant escape them. Plus they are gonna be drunk and behave even worse.

You cant change that.

The only thing you can change is how you see it. Maybe it is a visit in a mad world. Maybe you can find a friend to laugh with, laugh at the stupid people. Maybe you will find something you like about the party. It sounds like you are looking for flaws instead of looking for things you like.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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Remedy you're looking for = alcohol.


BUT


As it was previously mentioned, you can meet girls anywhere you want. I don't understand why you think it will lead to party.

1. You should filter girls out by your interests. If a girl likes to party, next. If she doesn't, good. Problem solved.

2. If, FOR SOME REASON, you, and your non-party girl end up at a party, it will be equally "not your thing" for the both of you. You will just spend time together alone at a crowded place. Spend the whatever time you need and the both of you will be happy to leave and go somewhere else.

And try not to fake anything. You're a free human being and you should always do what you want and what you're comfortable with. Besides, people will be able to tell that you're faking it sooner or later.

Best of luck.

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