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| MysteryinTraining | PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 2:22 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Aug 11, 2012 6:33 pm Posts: 11 | | Okay so I have had oneites bad for about a year. Ill give you guys a background of my relationship with the girl in question so you can fully make your judgement.
Beginning: She was a friend of a friend, I had higher social value than her because although she was hot she was very shy so not very popular. I kind of initiated conversation with her for a couple month and then pretty much stopped. She then started chasing me a bit as in she would text me quite frequently. I escalated by asking her to Home Coming (school dance), but the night went awful because I was too shy to physically escalate (Typical AFC). On top of that I was very needy in the weeks leading up to the dance.
Middle: We didn't talk for a while after how badly the dance went. Slowly we became friends again and I was solidly in the friend zone. Also during this time she became heavy in the party scene and opened up quite a bit so her social value shot through the roof. Meanwhile I went MIA in most social circles because I had tons of school work so my social value went down.
Now: We had a date this summer but I completely f'd it up because I had no Kino and failed shit tests (judging if I was relationship material). So even though we were talking for a couple weeks Im pretty sure she still has me in the friendzone.
Last ditch effort: So here is my last try, Using all the knowledge of game I have picked up this summer I have devised a conversation that should take me out of the friendzone. Here it is. This will take place after school
Me: "I have to tell you something, meet me at my car after school"
(at my car)
"I have figured you out, [say it with a serious look on my face] you are quite insecure with yourself that is why you put up such a hard shell but inside you are really nice. I kind of like that side of you. Here is why it never worked between us. I was too respectful, you want a guy who will tell you what to do and I want that. Well I'm done with that shit. So now get in my car we are going for a ride"
I will probably take her to get something to eat and then kino escalate a shit ton and attempt to makeout in my car on the ride home.
So sorry for the unberalbe length but can you guys help a reformed AFC out?
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| VietnameseProdigy | PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 3:23 am | |
Joined: Fri Mar 25, 2011 10:28 pm Posts: 574 | | So you have oneitis, you fix that by gaming other chicks. Stop focusing on this one, she's nothing special.
So using all the knowledge of the game... you come up with something super needy/afc and incongruent to your personality.
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| AFC Stevie J. | PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 2:37 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jul 28, 2012 1:42 pm Posts: 94 Yahoo Messenger: fstonstrep01@yahoo.com Location: Rockville Maryland | | I agree with prodigy.. saying all that is totally not needed, just freeze her out and start gaming other girls. That way you can build up social proof by having an aray of female friends and if one of the other girls happens to be interested thats great since pre selection will make the first girl want you more.
With your new female friends you can get invited to more parties which gives you a chance to increase your value. Then even if the first girl doesnt wath you, you have plenty of options to fall back on.
Good luck! _________________ On a Mission to be one of the DMV's BEST PUA!!
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