quick question. In anyone's PUA experience, are you more dominate in the bedroom with a girl and how has she responded to being dominated? I've had a girl put my hands around her throat as I was banging her but I was a little hesitant to squeeze with any type of force. What about you guys are you dominate/aggressive? I just have a feeling this would serve me better than being all lovey-dovey with a girl.

A consensus would be appreciated, because I want to change my tactic not only in the bedroom but in the whole pick up process. from being smooth and under- the-radar to a more dominate aggressive and commanding approach. (by no means do I imply rape)

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Simple motto: Get paid and get laid.

In the bedroom I like to LEAD, see where it goes from there. Trying the limits, typically she will instinctively, let you know how far you can go!

As far as aggressive pick up, read this:

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

The keyword here is calibration.

Some girls will love it others wont.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

So what has been your experience from girls in a general sense. Do they prefer domination / taking control or being a bit more loving

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Simple motto: Get paid and get laid.

Ussualy they prefer being dominated. But there are degrees of domination.

but ive been with girls who hated domination, they wanted to feel every episode of grey anatomy"

And have seen girls who started as hopeless romantic, and gradually reach a point where they would become sex slaves.

Never had a girl who liked to dominate, but ive girls who said they love and dont want to be dominated they have to lead .

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Read 50 Shades of Gray; Every girl wants to be HER

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I always do

Just throwing them around and taking the lead I find girls always like that

I always choke and hair pull I love it

The way people here generalize makes me shiver.

Every guy loves dominating its in our nature to dominate the female right?

Sado and mistress ring any bell?

Calibration.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

As an example; the other night I became a very drunk, very domineering asshole!

Post here:

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And don't get me wrong, you don't need to be drunk to act like this, but now this girl wont leave me alone.

All talk about what I "made" her do, what I said to her, and HOW SHE WANTS MORE!!!

And how she loved exploring that "side" of herself

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

What I've noticed is that girl's can very quickly determine what a guy's personality is, if he has one, from his style--body language and fashion.

When a guy has a definite style, that will attract women who want the kind of experience that he seems to have to offer and turn off women who want another kind of experience.

I, for example give off vibes that women have described to me as "sexual with a touch of danger," so it should come as no suprise that women who give me approach invitations or approach me want a quick escalation, passionate sex and no strings attached.

Either bad girls or good girls who are looking for an adventure.

Snake Doctor is right, calibration is king, both for the pickup and the sex afterwards, but these days I have found that the women take care of calibration for me and those who are interested always tend to want the same thing.

Before I had such an obvious style, I had to calibrate my pickups and sexual techniques much more.

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Comforting her rationalizations of course is all you are really doing. only dealing with her rationalizations from feelings of being a slut. The reality is, this is how girls are, they need to rationalize or be able to rationalize sleeping with you, getting kinky with you...ect.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.