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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 4:44 pm 
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I will spare you the long story and just say that I am a AFC.

I picked up my first PUA book just Friday. By sat I had 5 numbers from 5 women who looked better than any chick I previously dated and I even had sex with one of them. What's the problem you ask?

Well I have only learned one PUA technique and that's approaching. I know nothing beyond that. I got 4 hot chicks that I haven't the slightest clue of how I should move forward with. 3 of them want me to text them. I have no idea what to say.... it's been 3 days. If I don't contact these chicks ASAP I'm going to blow it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 4:49 pm 
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You're not an AFC. AFC stands for "average frustrated chump". You had the balls to go out and get some numbers and you're actively improving yourself. Give yourself more credit.

If you're getting numbers, then you're doing more than just approaching. You're number-closing at the very least. That's the hard part; the part that most guys can't do because it takes the biggest balls.

Text them and keep the conversation short, light, and funny. The goal is to get them to go out with you. Don't try to talk about bullshit like the weather or your favorite salad - get them to meet up with you ASAP.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 4:51 pm 
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I suggest going short and to the point. Here is a message i sent a girl a few hours after I met her and her friends.

"Hey, I hope all of you got home safe. I'll talk to you soon -[My name]".

Naturally, you can't send that message now, but it just shows what I mean by short and to the point. Remind her of your last interaction (which I failed to do above, as you can see) if you have some way to do that. Other than that, just tell her you would like to meet up, and where and when. You take the lead :)


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:10 pm 
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@Snarg

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I'm so stunned at my progress I didn't take time to give myself any credit and chalked all this up to luck but deep down I know it's not I'm just a little afraid of success. I too was thinking the next step was to get the date but my game is negative 100 with texting. Is there a basic guide for texting and keeping it interesting? I'm much better in a convo but these chicks work days and I work nights so my text game needs to be on point if I'm gonna get one or two to hook up with me for drinks or whatever by the weekend.

@Direction

I never think to do that. I'll try that in the future. I already got these chicks confused so a short and sweet message should help but as you stated it's too ate. 3 days passed and I need something explosive to remind them of how fun of a guy I am.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 6:54 pm 
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When texting ALWAYS have a goal - build rapport, get her on a date, build compliance ect
Don't bother keeping it interesting over text, just get her to meet you Irl and build it up there

Never try to do something explosive to remind them of you over text, they should remember you because of what good game you ran, not because you set a house on fire and got arrested
Also I wouldn't wait 3 days to text girls, they meet 20 other guys that are gaming them in that time and all the sudden your pushed to the back of her mind, i like to text them right when I get their number to A) make sure it's real, B) add my name in their contacts as "charblad the sexy guy at the beach" or something like that, if she sees that name texting her what choice does she have but to respond? (also if she's a shy tester it breaks that barrier by you watching her do the first text"

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