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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 2:49 am 
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I have seen some posted lately saying "all women cheat", and although I tend to believe that almost all women are capable of cheating I am going to tell you what I feel is the key to keeping a girl from cheating.

The fact is that all women are capable of cheating, and I am willing to bet that 90% of women cheat at one time or another even if its not sexually.

So how do you keep them from cheating?

IMO the best way is to have your girlfriend or wife understand what she is capable of, She must understand that if she puts her self in a bad situation that she WILL cheat....women who think "I would never cheat" are the ones who will most likely end up cheating because "it just happend" but If your gf or wife can honestly tell her self "I will cheat if I put my self in a bad situation, I know I am capable of cheating so I won't hang out with guys alone" she will be far less likely to cheat on you!

This will allow her to start thinking more logically about things, if your value is high she won't risk loosing you so she wont put her self in bad situations.

This is not fool proof, but women who understand what they are capable of are far far less likely to cheat on you!


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 3:22 am 
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If it helps women find a guy who has 80% of what they want and stay with that guy, the reason women cheat is because they want that 20% you don't have, just help them realize giving up that 80% isn't worth it for the 20% and realize your both not perfect

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 3:47 am 
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If it helps women find a guy who has 80% of what they want and stay with that guy, the reason women cheat is because they want that 20% you don't have, just help them realize giving up that 80% isn't worth it for the 20% and realize your both not perfect
I agree you should always be a challenge, but pick up tactics aside, I feel it is very important for a women or any of us for that matter to understand what we are capable of to prevent it. Its rare but even a women who's interest is in the 90% range will cheat if the circumstances are right, and she puts her self in a bad situations...you would be shocked at what a few drinks, and a smooth talking guy can do! But if the girl never puts her self in those situations there is never anything to worry about.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 9:06 am 
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cheaters gonna cheat, non-cheaters not gonna cheat

simple as that, around 50% of population both male and female (when polled/surveyed), are up for cheating

usually it goes like this, person is interested/turned on by the idea of cheating, or has multiple good options to sleep with, person then cheats, person then backwards rationalizes cheating with a reason

the real reason?, they wanted to have sex with someone they found attractive, doesn't really mean their partner who they are in a relationship is lesser or greater, doesn't mean that partner was running low on the game

what it does mean, is that the person who cheated, wanted to cheat

the number one reason stated for cheating for both men and women, is neglect from their partner, but from what I have seen, often times girls and guys both just cheat cause they want to, and their partner doesn't neglect them at all, they just rationalize things that way, and often Betty who is 26 and has never cheated in her life, will not cheat for the rest of her life, while Lexa who is 22 and has cheated on the last 10 boyfriends, will continue to cheat on the next 10

in my opinion it has very little to do with you, and very much more so to do with them

and girls are most likely to cheat after the honey moon phase has ended (up to 18 months after sex) when their brain stops producing extra dopeamine around you, since they are no longer getting that emotional high (has little to do with game, more to do with sex), they get ''bored'' and go looking for a new fix

some girls will hang on to the boyfriend and cheat, to maintain the security, others will just dump him, and alot of girls don't cheat at all ever, period, for any reason


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 3:13 pm 
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im fucking possibru

cheaters gonna cheat, non-cheaters not gonna cheat

simple as that, around 50% of population both male and female (when polled/surveyed), are up for cheating

usually it goes like this, person is interested/turned on by the idea of cheating, or has multiple good options to sleep with, person then cheats, person then backwards rationalizes cheating with a reason

the real reason?, they wanted to have sex with someone they found attractive, doesn't really mean their partner who they are in a relationship is lesser or greater, doesn't mean that partner was running low on the game

what it does mean, is that the person who cheated, wanted to cheat

the number one reason stated for cheating for both men and women, is neglect from their partner, but from what I have seen, often times girls and guys both just cheat cause they want to, and their partner doesn't neglect them at all, they just rationalize things that way, and often Betty who is 26 and has never cheated in her life, will not cheat for the rest of her life, while Lexa who is 22 and has cheated on the last 10 boyfriends, will continue to cheat on the next 10

in my opinion it has very little to do with you, and very much more so to do with them

and girls are most likely to cheat after the honey moon phase has ended (up to 18 months after sex) when their brain stops producing extra dopeamine around you, since they are no longer getting that emotional high (has little to do with game, more to do with sex), they get ''bored'' and go looking for a new fix

some girls will hang on to the boyfriend and cheat, to maintain the security, others will just dump him, and alot of girls don't cheat at all ever, period, for any reason
I know this has been discussed countless times before, but in your opinion then, do you agree with the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater"?


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 3:48 pm 
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I know this has been discussed countless times before, but in your opinion then, do you agree with the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
yes, If there is a history, history tends to repeat it's self

with that being said, alot of girls are pretty borderline flirtatious in nature, and it is just their personality, if you are unaware of a girl's history, it's in my opinion to trust her until she shows intent that leads you to believe otherwise, beyond casual flirtations (such as arranging meetups alone with guys, getting up to fishy shit that she tries to cover up with very transparent chick logic etc.)


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