Hello- I hope everyone had a great weekend!!! If you don't want to read the book fast forward to the question.
The Background:
I have been talking to this women (25) I meet online via text for the last 3 weeks. At first she was a little standoffish but has warmed up to me. We have talked everyday or every other day for the last 3 weeks mainly just flirty and witty smart ass comments. I did ask her out Via text and she said she couldn't that week. I made a funny commit and she began to make more sexual comments and talk to me more as a girl that had real interest. I was trashed one AFTERNOON and text her about how i was at the pool and trashed on pain killers and booze (Not a habit of mine) I had porcine crowns put on which hurts like hell and cost a fortunate and if the doc is prescribing me tabs, I'm partying. That day she said well be careful i would like to meet you one day. Now i have not pushed going out on a date because i just started a company and my ass is broke, so broke they cut off my electricity for a week (she knows nothing about my current financial situation). She told me she is Vegas for the week, so i said cool hit me up, when you get back in town. She started sending me pics of her trip and I made a funny comment and ignored her other text. I did not want to come off needy or blowing her up while she was on Vacation. I also thought hey 4 or 5 days of not talking to her will make her miss me (I almost always initiate the texting) I text her Friday she responds right away,we chit chat a few hours via text.
My Dumb Ass:
I sent a text this morning to her on accident. I said, I'm busy this week but we will hang out next week! Now this was meant for another girl with the same name that I blew off on Saturday. She said "since you didn't hang out with me last night when are we going to hang out, "fucking dumbass Siri" The girl that I accidentally texted said OOOOOOKKkk and i responded Greatttttt. How was your trip in Vegas? She didn't respond. Three hours later and feeling like a jackass I sent her a text saying
I accidentally sent you that text this morning, I would never be so random and demanding to you? no funny comment and instantly when i hit sent I went oh shit what the fuck was I thinking. I assume she wasn going to blow me off and stop talking to me. Blame it on the hangover or heat exhaustion, I got insecure which is not like me but I dig the chick. While I was typing this message she said:
"What text? Sorry for my delay, I have been resting".
I have not responded because I wanted some advice to make sure I didnt say something dumbass again.
Thanks for the help and I apologize about the typos, I'm trying to rush out the door. I use good grammar when i talk to girls not dudes fuck y'all and what you think
