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if your out at night, shift the direction you are leading to from a number, to sleeping with her
make it more of a win win for the both of you, rather then a I GOT HER NUMBER YAY, I WIN, then take off, lose/win situation, don't make it as if you are going for some prize and once you get your prize you are out, just focus on the connecting, and the compliance building, as well as leading towards the end destination, the number comes early in set, not at the end, you stay in set until you get laid/rejected/or she has to go
do your best to make sure the night ends in both of you getting laid, build compliance high enough to do so, if the logisitcs are bad (you should be finding out early) then you get the number and build up the compliance and investment as high as possible, even after the number, but even the most solid of numbers can easily flake and even the most weak numbers can meet up
just don't chance it to a number, that is the last resort unless you are running around during the day, and in that case keep it short and snappy, get to the point, and collect a shit ton of numbers and follow up on them sooner rather then later, and if that's not your style (even though it's such an easy way to get dates), try to get the girl out for a date immidiately right then and there, instead of a number follow up and it is the same idea as if you were at a bar during the night (just without drinks, unless you take her for a drink), if you are playing the get a phone number game, then you will be playing the numbers game, so if your having problems with this, then your answer is more girls and more volume, if you are playing for keeps... then play for keeps and close
push your comfort zone and test your limits and see how you like to do things
GOOD LUCK
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