I went out with a couple of friends tonight, one of them brought a girl whom I'd met at a party before and kinda hit it off with but she had and still has a boyfriend so I never really followed her up.

Anyway, from the second I met them me and get was talking, I wasn't negging or anything it was genuine conversation, the drinks began to flow and the game really began, I was Kinoing, she was looking at my lips, playing with her hair, I KNEW she wanted me, I just carried on gaming her, getting close, pulling away etc.. then the following conversation happened as we were walking back to our seat after SHE bought me a drink

Me: You're so cute, you're totally my new little sister (hugged her with one arm)
Her: OMG YES! You're not going to be bossy are you?
Me: No way, I said "sister" not "dad"

We reached our seats, carried on random talking when my friend said he wanted food so me and him left for a while to grab some, when we came back she was more interested in some other guy so I just danced, talked with my friend and random other people, all through the night I was high fiving people as they walked past, got the other girl that was there doing it too! My friend said that she was saying how sexy I was etc.. so shes definitely into me.

Anyway, at the end of the night we all got seperated, I found a guy I knew from college and went outside to chat, they eventually came out and she was annoyed with herself because she has a boyfriend and was flirting with this other guy, following conversation took place

Her: I'm a knob, I want to kill myself (said playfully)
Me: Thats crazy, why?
Her: Because I have a boyfriend, that guy was soo sexy I wanted to kiss him
Me: So why didn't you?
Her: I don't cheat
Her: I might go back in and kiss him
Me: Go for it, you should! But, you'll end up regretting it

Further Kino, turned the conversation onto me

Me: You can't be my little sister anymore, you keep looking at my lips, you're totally my new stalker
Her: Omg, that'd be so cool, I could follow you home and sit outside your house
Me: Definitely! Let me know you're there and i'll bring you cookies
Her: (grabbing me) you're amazing!
Me: Since you're my stalker, you have to text me every second of the day (# close)
Her: Not every second
Me: Yep, every second or you'd be a terrible stalker (jokingly, laughing, non clingy)

At this point the rest of our friends came out and we hugged goodbye, she texted me a while later, we flirted but then she said she was going to sleep.

Now, despite the VERY obvious signs of her wanting to kiss me, I didn't, she would have regretted it because of the boyfriend, she was saying how the spark had gone, calling him boring etc.. so I decided to keep the vibe fun and flirty instead of conveying too much interest.

What do you think? Do I know how a shot with her? When she texted me goodnight she said "Want me to text you tomorrow? night" I replied "Sure, night " and she sent me a further text saying "awesome speak to you tomorrow" to which I didn't reply to.[/u]

she seems a flirty little bitch. probably just looking for attention/validation. not sure she would go through with anything though.

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Haha yeah I can kinda see that actually! She wasn't giving this guy nearly as many IOIs though, personally I think it was a shit test that I passed with flying colours, I acted like I couldn't care less! The text conversation went like this

Her: Hey We got home alright are you home yet? From your new stalker!

Me: Hey! Nope I sat in the park for an hour with a friend, walking home now, hey new stalker!

Her: Haha omg why would you do that haha you crazy person and james told me that you said something about me to him but wouldn't say what lol what did you say?

Me: I didn't say anything! (genuinely couldn't remember)

Her: He said you did haha and I want to know now i dont mind if you did haha

Me: (I remembered) Ah I remember! I said I was gonna kiss you, but then remembered you had a boyfriend and didn't want you to get all clingy and follow me home like a lost puppy

Her: Really?! didn't think I was your type lol if its any consellation i would have kissed you if I didn't have a boyfriend

Me: I know, you kept looking at my lips

Her: I was not! Haha

Me: Was too, and you know it

Her Prove it

Me: I would, but I forgot to turn my spy camera on

Her: See, you can't!

Me: I believe my eyes

Her: You saw nothing hehe anyway i'm off to bed now because i'm really drunk and tired, i will text you tomorrow if you want?

Me: Sure night

Her: awesome! speak to you tomorrow, night

She's into you. However wait until she texts you again. She said she was drunk. Core attraction is there. The obstacle is her boyfriend and her regretting things. If you don't care about ruining a relationship you can go for it, but there are other girls out there too. Single girls.

I woke up to a text from her this morning! She then said shes going over her boyfriends and then didn't reply.

I think I'm going to play it slow on this one, only text her now and again or whenever she texts me, invite her out more with my group of friends and game her while out, then pull back again via texting! She was saying how her boyfriend was boring etc.. so I don't think shes too into him anymore.

If this was any other girl I'd run a boyfriend destroy routine on her, but since our two social circles are becoming increasingly merged that'd probably be a bad plan.

Yep. Put her on the backburner while you game other girls. You know she's there, let her relationship with her boyfriend either flourish or die naturally, either way, you shouldn't care too much. Just know you can fuck her if they do break up. Be careful of being a rebound though.

I just remembered that last night as we were leaving she was trying hard to convince me to walk to her friends house with her (her friend was with us) I said no because I live in the opposite direction. My other friend just texted me saying she was talking about me constantly on the way home.

I think the boyfriend text earlier was a shit test, she texted me an hour after that and hasn't stopped since, being flirty too. I think you're right, backburner for a while then fuck her.

Dont spend too long time in this "Love texting you" thingie

Arrange a meeting and try to do something. If she says "I have a boyfriend", you say "I know" anfd after a while you start covertly giving her messages what could be better.

Boyfriend is boring and not adventurous: "You know how its sometimes, something old starts to be too usual. It never surprises you anymore... I got a feeling I should go buy a new _"

She will start analyzing her relationship and if hits bullseye she will start thinking options what can make her happier in that way.

Shes invited me out on Saturday, I've invited her out on Monday. Sorted

Well done, what do you plan on doing?

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Just to a few bars I think, both times. Saturday its someone she knows birthday, and Monday I'm going out with friends anyway before I go on holiday for two weeks

Right, seems that my friend has been trying to cock block me with this girl, text conversation:

Me: Oo you're such a playette

Her: Haha no i'm not! Mind you, you know all about that going by your reputation Alex told me some stuff about you!

Me: Ahh bless he just can't stop talking about me! Whats he said?

Her: Well I know different know cos you told me last night unless you lied which I don't think you did so don't worry lol he just said that you are really mean to girls and that you have cheated on every girlfriend that you have and stuff like that so he doesn't sing tour praises when it comes to girls lol

Me: Yeah hes right, I'm totally mean to girls! This one time I didn't buy a girl flowers on valentines day, I'm totally going to hell!

Her: Haha well I didn't believe him anyway don't worry, you are defo going to hell, we'll go together

Now. She seemed to be pretty persistent with getting across that she doesn't believe him, this guy was hitting on her at the same time and trying to cock block me at a party by saying stuff like "Hes a player and I'm the nice guy" etc.. then her boyfriend came over and she introduced him, he completely froze and didn't know what to do, I made friends with the boyfriend and disarmed him, I was ahead but this just pushed me even further ahead.

I'm going to stop over analysing everything now haha, but, the constant "I don't believe him" is a pretty big qualification I think.

You're doing fine.

Your 'friend' isn't a friend. You need to get him in line. The up side is - your friend is only DHV'ing you. He's falling victim to 'ambush marketing'.

Keep it light, continue to show that this has no effect on you. She's guaging her decisions based on your demeanor it seems, and thus far - you're doing great!

Kudos.

RR

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I think you're doing great.

Your friend (if is a friend at all) actually did you a big favor, may be not unintentionally, when saying those things and presented you as a bad guy.

Girls never liked nice guys. NO fun.
Right guys?

Usually girls are more into bad, interesting guys, and she also said she was bored with her relationship.

Everything looks on yur side, just think twice because you can ruin your social environment, as you said you share social circles.

But in the end the most important is you and her to be happy.
Just my ¢2.

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Thanks guys, I really do value your input!

It's definitely going well, I never text back straight away, usually leaving it around 20 minutes or so and shes been complaining at times that I take too long to text back and that I should text faster, definite IOI there I think! She did go onto say "Am I not important enough to text back faster" I ignored it and replied with "I've setup my little "text you back" corner, I've made a sign, put up some lights, I'm sorted!"

We moved onto more intimate talk today, she mentioned about stealing my clothes if she gets cold which moved onto her saying "If I asked to see you in boxers you'd let me" in which I replied "I'm not that easy, you'd have to seduce me first" she replied "I'm not allowed " There was general conversation within that talk but that was the gist of it!