Not sure if this is the right place for this, sorry if its not.

OK, first let me preface this by saying I don't particularly want to learn game or how to be a PUA or whatever, I'm fairly confident, funny etc. I just have a really weird situation and I don't really have no idea how to go about it. OK, in the interest of getting the best advice possible, I'm going to tell the whole story start to finish in as much detail as I can remember.

Aiite so, on Tuesday I got invited to a house party with my friend, by this Australian I kind of had a little bit of history with. Not slept with her or anything, just used to see each other a bit when we used to work together. I'm pretty sure from the tone she just want's me to come so she can sleep with me, which I wasn't really adverse to.

Anyway, we arrive at the party, and whatever, people start getting drunk, like 7 people end up in her bedroom, me, one other dude, his gf and four other girls (one of them the Australian, and one of them is the girl in question. I'll just call her X). Anyway, people are coming and going but me, X and Australian were pretty much there the whole time. After a while the girls start fooling around with each other, not seriously just standard stuff, joke dry humping etc. Sometime in between now and the next part of the sotry someone mentions that X has a boyfriend.

Anyway, after there's a lull me and X get talking, just normal conversation, not even really that into her at this point. But we find out like that we have a lot in common and our sense of humor is like exactly the same. After a while I find out she's Bi-sexual, and she starts like grabbing girls over and were both kind of fooling around with them but not each other. She pulls Australian over at one point, we make out. Australian goes away, eventually so does everyone else and its just me and X left. Were not even touching at this point but then she starts kicking me lightly, by this point I'm kind of into her because of how similar our personalities are, so I grab her foot and start rubbing it. She's like "Don't do that its weird", I'm say "Fine if you want me to stop just say stop it and I'll stop", "....OK", "...Are asking me to stop it?" "no" "ok then".

Anyway after a while I move up and am lying beside her. Then some commotion happens and everyone ends up outside. I say

"You're a pretty good wingman"
"Maybe we should be a team"
"Maybe we should"

Eventually we go back inside, everyone wants to go out to the club, and me and her are just staying in. Some other stuff happens, where were kind of intertwined, and I kiss her on the forehead. Then she says

"Thats weird."
"No it's not, look kiss me on the forehead, its nice"

She does. Before this point I have moved in a couple times, but she seems to draw the line at full on making out, because of boyfriend induced guilt.

I'll skip to the next important part. Australian comes back in, and she's obviously on it with me probably just because i'm with her flat mate. So Australian comes over and starts kissing me. I kind of kiss her back a bit because I didn't really want to be mean and straight up push her off. Its her house after all and I was in her bed.

After she leaves, I turn to X and say

"I didn't really want to do that"
"Why did you?"
"Feel bad rejecting people straight out"
"You shouldn't ever feel that way, don't ever kiss someone you don't want to"

Anyway, after everyone leaves we end up cuddled in, I move in for a kiss a few times cause were playing footsie and stuff. I move in for like the second time and she's like

"No I can't, I have a boyfriend"
"Look, I like you, and you like me, you told me you never see your boyfriend anyway cause of his job"
"Yeah but still its wrong"
"But this is obviously weird. Like we've lay here, in bed and had a conversation for 3 hours. You think this is how I usually pick up at house parties?"
"Maybe you're just really bad at it"
"I'm not"

She kind of breaks away a bit then says

"would you like it if you were my boyfriend and I was doing this with other guys?"
"No but I wouldn't have a Job that would cause me to never see you"
"You would quit your job for a girl? Just like that"
"yeah absolutely"

Its probably worth mentioning that at this point, we've probably had a 4 hour unbroken conversation, which is probably the longest I've had with any human being ever. there was at one point a 10 minute silence where we literally just lay and stared into each others eyes. Its probably also worth noting that she doesn't seem to be the type that ever does this. Told me she'd only ever slept with her current boyfriend. She's 21. I don't know how true this is but I'm inclined to believe her.

I know this sounds all very "Hugh Grant" cheesy, but I promise you it all happened.

She's got a cold, so I get up and make her some lemsip, we talk at the kitchen table about types, sex, different stuff. Then we go back to bed.

Then she cuddles back in and we're watching a film. we're both drifting off in kind of a spooning position, then her flat mate comes back in. Drunk. She climbs in behind me and grinds right up beside me. Starts spooning me, which is kind of weird, but anyway, I'm totally Unresponsive. But she perseveres, at this point me and X basically just start spooning/grinding. I'm kissing her on the shoulder. Its all very lovey dovey except for this other girl that's behind me grinding me while I do it. I'm not sure how aware X was of this.

Skipping forward, 9am the next morning, I get woken up by my friend after like 2 hours of sleep. He says, they're leaving. I said Man I'm just gonna stay here and get the train. As soon as I said that X, who had her back to me and I assumed was sleeping. Turned around and like gave me a massive hug. Anyway we end up spooning, still being all romantic and that. After an hour or so we fall asleep.

**Next Day**

I wake up with her getting out of bed. After like 5 minutes I get up and so does Australian. I wait like 4 hours for Australian to go in the shower and stop talking about pulling me infront of X. Eventually she does, and I have this conversation.

X: You OK?
me: No
"Why?"
"Last night was the weirdest night of my life"
"Why?"
"I lay in bed with you and we talked for like 6 or 7 hours. We didn't do anything serious, but it obviously wasn't close to platonic. Does this happen often to you?"
"No"
"...Well are you still confused."
"I was confused last night, but this morning I'm less confused, even if I did want to leave my boyfriend to be with you I couldn't. its not right."
"Did you say, even if you didnt have a boyfriend you still wouldn't?"
"No, I'm saying I can't leave him, its not right"
"OK...glad you're not confused anymore"
"really?"
"No, but seemed like the good guy thing to say"

X: "....I was kind of hoping you had forgot about last night
"Nope, drunk enough, to act like an idiot, but not drunk enough to not remember"
"You didn't act like an idiot"

....

Me: "Anyway, sorry"
X: "You have nothing to feel guilty about"
"Yeah, OK, look im gonna go before this gets more awkward"
"I'll walk you to the door"

....

Me: "We'll guess i'll see yu later"

Hug

X: "Dont cry"
Me: "...I wont"

I wasn't nor was I going to, idk if it looked like that or she was just saying it.

2 days later I added her on Facebook. She accepted and then as soon as she did she changed her profile picture from some funny "Zany" picture to a picure taken in December, in which she looks amazing.

Obviously she likes me. I like her. She's conflicted. I get it. My question is, how do I even approach this situation. Shit was so awkward in the morning, I couldn't be like "yeah, cool, well can I have your number?", so at this point I literally only have her FB and I haven't messaged her yet.

I was thinking the best line would be to invite her to a show I'm doing a bit at this big mainstream festival (I'm a rapper, its a rap battle, she seen my videos, thinks she likes them/doesn't think its cringey), sort her tickets etc, that way it doesn't have to be like I'm asking her out and she maybe won't feel as bad about it. I'll probably end up going to hers after and could see where it goes?

Is this the optimal line? Should I stay friends till she breaks up with her bf? (this seems inevitable, but also a very good chance i get friend-zoned).

Does her changing her profile picture mean anything? Am I reading too much into it?

I understand I'll probably get slated on here because I was in bed, with a gril, who liked me, and didn't close, and it's probably the biggest fail ever. But I'd really like some genuine advice if anyone can actually be bothered to read this thread.

For the record, I really do think me and X would make a great couple. I have literally never made a move on someone that was unavailable before now. I just like her too much not to.

Thanks.