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| 0dysseus | PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:39 am | |
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Location: Expaña | | To make things brief, I left a long term relationship, slept with a few girls a few times and one of them wants a relationship even after I've said I'm not ready. She invites herself over because she is friends with a SPAM. I stopped sleeping with her but still think it's super awkward bringing other girls by when she's always around/calling to hang out.
General Question: how do let someone down easy? I have to be careful because of my SPAM.
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| pumpington | PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2012 1:32 am | |
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Posts: 3276 | | *shrugs* she knows the deal, you made it clear, just sleep with her, if you made it clear you don't want an relationship then what's the problem?
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| Mack 2.0 | PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2012 2:00 am | |
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Posts: 2702 | | maybe she's down for threesomes
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| 0dysseus | PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:45 pm | |
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Location: Expaña | | I appreciate your replies. It seems like as long as I'm honest with her, I just have to let her down hard if soft doesn't work. However, I liked the last comment.. since it doesn't matter what happens between myself and her, why not ask her if she wants to have a threesome? The way I see it, it can go either way:
"Ummm.. no thanks. That's gross. Asshole" (and she loses interest, perfect)
or
"Idk, I've never thought about it. I guess in the right situation..." (And I take it from there)
Is there something I've overlooked?
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