| Hey,
I was sent on a course, basically its once a week, only 5 sessions, ive already attended 3 so only 2 left...
Imagine the scene, im one of the ones in the "class", flipboard chart at front of room etc, then there are 2 people taking the class. One an older woman and one an absolutely gorgeous girl who at times im having a hard time getting out of my head...
Yes, i know, i dont know her, so "dont put her on a pedistal" etc, but she is without a doubt the cutest girl ive ever seen... The problem is even though ive done more than my fair share of "contributing" to the class (ie talking out in front of the crowd to her and her collegue - and been asked questions by her etc), ive never had the opportunity to talk to her alone.
This is because when everyone arrives they dont let anyone in until they are ready - so there is no chance of arriving early, and at the end people are so slow at leaving it feels like if i try and fumble about to be the last one to leave it never happens - also, even if i did, there is still the older woman collegue there to think about...
I have to admit i am really not experienced in asking girls out, i was in a long term relationship (over 5 years) and since that broke up quite a while ago have had no luck at all...
Although this girl, i will absolutely kick myself if i dont at least try, however the problem with the classroom being so small, so many people, and even if i do stay behind the collegue there makes this feat seem so daunting... But the reality is that theres a class this thursday, then the following thursday is the last class and i will probably never see her again...
Im not looking for a "pick up" in a sleezy way here, this is my first post on here so i dont know what the general agenda is but i genuinely would like to ask the girl out, as in for a coffee or whatever and get to know her because she definitely isnt one of the "yeah shes hot i would" kind of girls, theres something about her ...
If anyone has any tips in this situation or what i should say - considering my nerves in asking her out (although like i say i do speak out infront of the class confidently and without worry but asking a 10/10 like this out with my lack of experience is - well, terrifying), especially in these circumstances
|
CHAT