Whats up everyone? I'm just reading The Game now and joined the forum recently. Stoked on what I've learned thus far and about the opportunities the future holds. The target is a girl I work with, we also play company softball together (wooooo haha). I started gaming her before starting the book, Im a quick learner but I definitely started the wrong way. I paid too much attention to her, focused a little too much on her etc. We had a staff party on Friday night and she is HB7.5, the body is rockin. Shes on the dance floor and I mosey on over, she sees me, gives me a high five and then introduces me to her friend and pushes her friend towards me haha. While her friend is a HB7, she is not my target. I think her friend likes me, but again she isnt the target here. How do I go about this? I only met the target about 3 weeks ago, so I feel as though there is still time left to game her, but if her good friend is interested in me I feel it will be much harder and maybe not possible. I suppose I could game her friend, set ground rules and seal the deal but I've tried this in the past and the target stays away because I F-closed her friend. Any assistance is appreciated.

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Any moves you make on the friend will definitely ruin your chances with your target. I've been in this situation a million times. Girls are really tight like that and if they're not then you're interfering with a friendship here. My advice is to ignore the friend and go more direct on the target. Sure, you've been paying attention to the target, but does she really know you're interested. Enough games. Ask her out on a date and start the real seduction. If you get rejected, no biggie, NOW you can go for the friend or keep working on your game with other women.

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I had this happen to me 2 years back. Both girls were cute but I was dead set on the target. I'd agree with the post above, even more so if the girls are VERY good friends. Good friends share everything with each other; gossip, girl talk, etc.

It's time to up the ante and ask her out on a date. Be confident and don't come off too needy. Playful, cocky & funny, and confidence (alpha mentality - inner game) all work well together.

And ask her out in a fun way, it helps lol. If you need some ideas I'll send them your way.

Yes, please! Thanks a lot guys!

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After initiating some playful convo with her. (Cocky&Funny works well) you can ask in a variety of ways.

I find that if I ask if she is free for the week, or what days of the week shes free, I'll then know if this week is a good week to ask and the success rate increases drastically.

Once you've got that down, you don't have to ask her out right away. Build some sexual tension. Flirt.

Then you can ask in a variety of ways.

1. If she agrees to a certain day, ask her "East or West?" Depending on which she picks, you eat at one of the two.

East = Far east, or asian themed. Hibachi, Saki Bombs, Etc.

West = Western, soo BBQ, Cookout, Campfires, etc.


2. You could also try "What we do lies behind one of these three doors. Door Number 1, Door number 2, Door number 3. Choose Wisely!" and just make sure you have something cool planned that'll be fun and get you two to enjoy each others company (flirt + touch).

And above all else, Confidence 24/7. Carry some swagger in everything you do, she'll notice.

Cheers

Ok thats great stuff. Question though, when it comes time to pay, do I? I mean I am the one asking her out, or do I play it cool and we split it?

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