Hello, I would like to know how often should I go out with a girl if I want to increase the attraction. I heard, I think it was Style, saying that once a week but I'm not sure.

What do you think? How often should I contact a girl and how often should we go out together if I want to keep the attraction level high?

Thanks for your help!

if you are in person you should escalate, shoot for sex sooner rather then later, just keep escalating further and further

forget attraction, she is or isn't attracted to you, but interest will be based off the quality of the experience, rather then how often she gets that experience, if anything overgaming will just de-sensitize her to your awesomeness if she hasn't invested far enough, eventually she will just become too comfortable with you and the idea that you are non-sexual, escalation needs to take place for this reason rather then pro-longed game, it would be wise to give your attention out sparingly and only with purpose

Thanks for your help pumpington. I will try to remember this and not focus on the number of dates.

I decided that I will be a few weeks, two or three, without asking her out. I want to see if she will call me or if she's always waiting for me to ask her out. I also want to appear as non-needy.

What do you think?