| This is gonna be long, fair warning, I shouldve come for help long ago had I known I was gonna screw up.
So basically I have this girl I've known about two months now. To start off she was my "date" to an exgfs wedding back for our first time meeting. Yes, she went with me after about four sentences exchanged to a town she never knew with a guy she never met. However I was stupid and didnt want anything from her, I was using her to make three other girls a bit jealous. (one being an ex). Anyways, I know shes leaving in a few months, no biggie Im not interested anyways. Well she acts so innocent and lonely I start to feel bad for using her, so she suggests we hang out, sure no harm right? Well then I started to become interested, and I thought damn this is easy, never flaked but once, fine kino, all of her friends and coworkers ask about me and we collectively bust her balls about her extending her stay to see me. (shes extended a month now already)
Things proceed for a bit, I've since then had TWO failed kiss closes. One she backed off and said something along the lines of "you didnt mean that, I know youre just a player". I responded with a no, I wouldnt have done it if I didnt mean it blah blah. She counters with "youre just a really good actor, I know better you just had another girl out on a date last Friday". I explain Im single, so its all fair game, if Im dating then its another story etc.
Thats when I became confused. Eventually I thought I had been friendzoned after another failed kiss close. She told her friends she wasnt into me like that, but then she gives a shitton of IOIs. Im not sure if its because shes leaving and doesnt want to feel like a slut, or if it involves this other dude shes in love with. She gets upset when she knows Im with another chick, even went so far as to give me a "fake hickey" on my neck by pinching and twisting like fuck because she wanted to "get me in trouble with other women", yet shes not interested? Hell she had asked me on multiple occassions to go back with her. (No way in hell!)
Thats where my dilemma comes. You see shes lied to me a shit ton since we hung out. Usually small stuff that shes obviously saying to impress me, and that I can slide. However I found out about this dude she loves, and is begging to sleep with. Now honestly that doesnt bother me, shes single and can do whatever she wants just like me. what pissed me off is that she lied about it to me. Shes one of those hopeless romantic types, where as the guy is like myself, and from what Im guessing a fellow PUA. I think shes projecting her hatred of that lifestyle on me since Im reminding her of what she cant have with other dude. Once I found out she lied about this I started a freeze out. I'm not interesting in dating a chick thats a compulsive liar, but Im wanting to work my game a bit more and see if I can reverse her oneitis. I'm looking to fuck her before she goes back home in a little less than a month.
Since freeze out Thursday she has texted me once today. I blew her off last Wednesday on plans we had for a few weeks because she was being bitchy, she never mentioned it but she knows I was with another girl that day because of FB photos. SOcial proof is definately no issue as shes seem me with about two dozen women in the short time shes known me. I brought a phone charger to a coworker today and she saw me but didnt say anything. I simply talked with the guy for a few and left. I get home and she messages me on facebook something similar to "I thought you saw me, but you didnt say hi or anything :["
So then, first off whats a decent way to respond? She has no clue I know about her lieing, and I dont want to act like im upset about it, but still not letting her get away with her. Shes a cute little chick and despite her lack of experience (assuming thats another lie) I think shed be a great lay. Im going to continue kinoing alittle heavier and such, but not sure where to go from here. Probably best to drop her but with the amount of time left I figure I could use the challenge and experience.
Not looking for any routines I dont suppose, as shes pretty smart and has picked many of them apart (same with magic tricks), so Ive been relying on natural game and smooth talking lol.
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