simple question, how do you get out of the friend zone and get into the fun zone,
ive got so many gorgeous good looking girls who i know, and i want more then just a friendship but i somehow got to friendly and now i am FRIEND ZONED, and i have learnt my lesson that i got my self in the friend zone, witch i dont do anymore with other girls i meet, but i need to know how to get out of the friend zone with the girls i got my self into, im sure its on a lot of blokes minds,
???how do you get out of it???


help me out here.

the reason its the dreaded friendzone is because you cant get out of it
or start fresh and game her like a new person in which case theres a chance she'll see u in a new light. or better take her out and start gaming other chicks to demonstrated your agendas with women

Kino escalate the girls and go for it.

I wouldn't want to take a female friend from the friend zone to the bedroom just once, or try to make a girlfriend out of her, but you can try to turn "friends" into friends with benefits.


I've done this two ways: Slow transition and caveman. If the person is open minded, a slow transition will get you an MLTR (assuming that you can find other people to fuck) that allows you to keep the friendship and fuck regularly, if not, it won't work and you'll have to give up. Caveman is better if you don't care that much about the friendship you have with this person because the result is unpredictable.

1: slow transition

I started by gradually becoming more sexual in the conversations that you have with this person in private--talking alone, text, email, whatever. Become one of the people she can talk to about sex (most women want to talk abut sex to someone, but don't feel comfortable talking about it with anyone). You'll find out what she likes, and think of you when she thinks about sex, treating it all as lessons. Build attraction as much as you can. Then sometime you're alone together, add in kino. Stress how much you can learn from each other.

Manage Expectations! Make sure that its clear that you don't want this to turn into dating, but that you are good friends, and are obviously attracted to each other, so why not also have sex? You can trust each other more than some random person you met in a bar, can't you? No need to pretend at any love stuff or plans for the future. Both of you can see other people, and either of you can call off the benefits at any time.


2: Caveman

When you're around your target, signal interest in nonverbal ways. Get caught looking at her tits, brush up against her body "accidentally", eye contact longer than usual. If she reacts to these by distancing herself from you or acting creeped out, this won't work. When I did this, the target blushed or did nothing, which I took as a sign to proceed.

Then, sometime when you're alone, but she is not necessarily expecting it, suddenly go for a kiss and aggressive kino. The way I did this was in a library, sitting on the floor touching with the target, reading the same book. I suddenly put my hand on the page, leaned in, and said "HB_ingenue, you know I stopped reading a long time ago" grabbing her, and pulling her into a kiss. After the kiss, she answered with a breathless "yes," and we made out rolling on the floor for several minutes, before some teenage kid saw us, gasped, and ran off, which was our cue to go someplace less public.

The final result of Caveman method will depend on your target. If you have managed to get her interested in you, it should work well. If not she will interpret it as creeptastic, which is why I recommend you start small with your lecherous behavior and build on it. You can gage the reaction and decide whether to proceed. If you go straight for the last stage and she isn't attracted, or expecting it this would border on sexual assault.
Also, after suddenly getting physical, the way things will progress will progress will depend on the target. She may fuck you once and then avoid you. She may want to start dating. If you manage expectations, you can decide the outcome more, but with this method, you will have a bit of a wildcard.

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there are a few reasons the friend zone can happen,

1) you don't show any sexual intentions towards her, and you are fun to be around, so she wants to be your friend, but not sleep with you

2) you do show sexual intentions, but you are not fun to be around so it is creepy, when she friend zones you in this way, she doesn't usually actually want to be your friend it's more just like, LJBF and I won't hang out with you or call you

3) you are fun to be around, you do show intent, but she finds you unattractive, it could be for what ever reason, you do something in particular that turns her off, or you are way below her standards of what she expects in a guy

now, if it is 1, then all you have to do is cut contact with her for a bit so she misses you, then come at her with a new angle, in other words, stop treating her like a friend, and start treating her like a girl you want to fuck, if this is hard for you, you have to learn how to get girls in general before you can get that one special girl or what ever

now if it is 2, or 3 then you have to improve yourself and what you are projecting to her, often times 3 is a death sentance and you will not be able to get out of the friend zone without significant improvement, much easier to find other girls then to get out of the friend zone if it is 3

with all that being said, best way to figure out what number it is, is ask yourself, have I tried to have sex with this girl?, if the answer is no, then try to, if it doesn't work out when you try to escalate, just go work on yourself and continue to meet new girls