Do you disqualify? I recently haven't disqualified girls so much. I've been pretty direct in my intent. I tell her she's cute or has a nice style, that's pretty much how I open.

But I know disqualification can be a powerful tool. Does it work even when your intent is clear? i.e it's ON between you and a girl, any need to disqualify after that point?

Bump.

yes, you can dis-qualify and qualify at any time, for example

if you approach and you say to a girl,

excuse me, I know this is sort of random but you're really cute, I really want to talk to you

you have just qualified her as cute and it was genuine, later on she says your pants suck or something, you can say, my pants? listen do you want to get thrown in a garbage or something? these pants are awesome, you're crazy (this would be a dis-qualifier)

just because you say she is good looking doesn't mean you are sold on her, you can like/dis-like anything about her that you want

it's just like that old mystery qualifier

listen, you're beutiful that's for sure, but beauty is common, look around, what is rare is a great energy and outlook on life, so what do you have going on for you more then your looks?

and it goes deep to, you can dis-qualify problems before they come up (challenging her to something before she challenges you so she can't make it an issue), you can dis-qualify the girl (bad behavior/to break rapport), you can dis-qualify yourself (to get past resistance)

Yeah, stupid question I realize now. But thanks.

Disqualifying is just another form of breaking rapport, or push.