What is the best way to follow-up?
I am really confused as i've read totally different opinions
and I am leaning to calling over texting.I want as many opinions as
possible

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

Horses for courses my man. You need to feel which is best in what situation and with what type of personality you're dealing with. I personally like to send info by a text, but will only converse over the phone.

I would state when you do the number close what you intend to do (Text or Call).

E.g. "I will call you" - then call her stick to your principals and call her like you said you would.

My personal opinion, I would call in any case, as you know as long as it's a right number they know you've called them and its up to them to either pickup or call you at least text you back.

I've sent text messages before to people and I've found out later that day that they haven't even gotten through.

*Slightly unrelated but relevant*
I don't put 100% faith in texting as some important personal messages to family have gone astray in the past - so I developed a code of ringing once and hanging up with family members straight after an important text)

Thank you guys! I would really like to hear from more members so as to get as many opinions as possible!

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

this discussion has been had like thousands of times on here. the truth is that if done correctly whichever one you choose will work. if done badly, obv either one will fail.

personally, im a text guy. i just think theres so many advantages over calling that its the one i almost always choose. i like that i can do it with low effort at my own pace and not have to worry about being rejected (i.e., if she cant/doesnt answer my call). also i have tons of time to come up with a response.

some guys on here hate texting and always call. obv if youre great on the phone and nail it, then the payoff is much greater than texting. you can build immediate chemistry much quicker and set up a meet all in like 10-15 minutes. things that would take a lot of texting time to accomplish.

figure out what works best for you and go with that.

good piece of advice, I believe too in having personal style!

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

Should I run a poll?Can someone tell me how to?
Thanks!

_________________
''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

Relevant and more informational:
text-game-is-for-pussies-vt137734.html

Please continue to post your opinion!Want to collect lots of opinions so as to see
how the forum members think!

_________________
''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''