| Gentlemen,
I don't consider myself to be an expert by any stretch, though I have had a good amount of success with women. I've recently come to really understand the importance and power of just having fun when talking to women.
I am a big advocate of natural game, as I believe it gives a lot more freedom and less clutter in your head. A big part of my game is my humour as I have a big talent for making not only women, but men too, laugh. This makes my interactions a lot more fun which increases that amount of success I have. I notice I have a lot more success when I go out with the intention of just having fun rather than "prowling" or gaming women.
An example of this is a few weeks back I went out with my wingman and a couple of girls. Straight off that bat I was making jokes, paying out on people and just self amusing. It ended up in me getting a kiss from one of the girls and has lead to a few dates and her being really into me. I was just having FUN (though, I was blind drunk as well!), and subconsciously I was kinoing her heavily (tickling, holding hands, cuddling), teasing etc. I did not have pre-scripted lines in my head, just went out to have fun
Get in the mindset of just having fun infield and all the lines will come. You'll be messing with her like you did to girl's back in the playground. Teasing them, tickling them and just not giving a shit about anything but having some laughs and being the "cool" guy. Nothing will bother you, because you're self amused and her lines won't hit. You won't be over thinking or over-analyzing. Just assume attraction, assume that she want's you and it'll become a reality.
Believe it. Take from this what you will, it's my contribution to the community that has helped me tremendously.
-Hopless Romantic.
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CHAT