Hello everyone,

I am 22 years of age. never have had a girlfriend in my life. not to be arrogant but i am a good looking guy. my co-workers and people tell me I am a good looking male. I have only made out with one girl in my life ( i was drunk) sucked on her tits and kissed etc. I feel immortal when im buzzed, i don't care of what others may think of me.

Furthermore, to get to the point nobody hits me up for parties to ask where they are, or what I am doing on a friday night...etc. nobody seeks to me for advice or anything.
I dont really even have a best friend that i can call or anything.

so my main point is....how can i get other to be dependent on me. (co-workers, friends etc)

thanks ahead of time, appreciate the feedback.

you do not want people to be dependent on you. that is a bad thing. you want friends. and then maybe a girlfriend. or a bunch of hookups. or fuck buddies. but definitely not dependent minions.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

im talking in terms of power, respect, and being an admirable person that others seek to.

power is a bad way to see it.
you want to be respected, that yes. and to be a reference point for your social circle.

what have you done for others recently? have you reached out to people in your office, in your school, ..., invited them to join some activity or just to hang out and grab coffee?
have you joined any association or club?
do you go out and socialize?
or do you just sit at home angry at people who have fun?

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)