Hello everyone,

I am 22 years of age. never have had a girlfriend in my life. not to be arrogant but i am a good looking guy. my co-workers and people tell me I am a good looking male. I have only made out with one girl in my life ( i was drunk) sucked on her tits and kissed etc. I feel immortal when im buzzed, i don't care of what others may think of me.

Furthermore, to get to the point nobody hits me up for parties to ask where they are, or what I am doing on a friday night...etc. nobody seeks to me for advice or anything.
I dont really even have a best friend that i can call or anything.

so my main point is....how can i get other to be dependent on me. (co-workers, friends etc)

thanks ahead of time, appreciate the feedback.

I would say start socializing in the sense where you tell a friend "hey mate lets get a beer after work". When you do this with a couple of people then you can all start going out together. This will network you with the people they know and so forth. Then you can start arranging nights out and eventually they will get the point that you are in for a night out anytime and when they feel like going out they will hit you. Its basically as simple as going out and getting to know other people.

Now when you have meat a few people and start connecting with a few of them on a personal level due to interests etc etc then they will seek for your advice sooner or later

I will suggest you to buy the excellent book "How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie."

It's a must!

Good luck!