Hi guys,

after leaving the PUA forum for a long time, I am back! During this period I did some PUA and had some successes and failures.

One thing I noticed that frequently go wrong in my game is the following:
how to keep the girl interested in you?

Normally my game looks like this:
I meet a girl, some negs, number close or Kiss close, then we set date for a new date. Meanwhile I add her on FB. But I notice that at the second date the girl already lost some interest. During the second date, i do small negs, qualify her, and k-close.

If i set date for the third date, I already can see she is actually not interested anymore.

So guys, what do you do to keep the girl interested in you, during several dates?

This has been a recent problem of mine as well. I dont know if its cause i dont Kino enough, or i am just lacking the balls

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What are you doing on these dates? Where are you going? Do you do most of the talking? How often do you message after the first date? How much do you touch her? Do you open doors? Do you tell her that you like her? Do you go to upscale places or dives?

i think my problem is i dont escalate quickly enough. i went out with this girl the other day, we never had a silent moment lots of talking etc. in terms of touching, none of it was sexual, just some flirty pushing some hand touching ("i actually do a bit of palm reading he he he"), and some "accidental" arm brushing when were walking with each other.

but other than this, our conversations/touching dont get sexual at all

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Kino should be the most basic building blocks of strting a set. Start by touching her and keep it going the whole night. and if there is a group, bring them all in. A kiss should happen in the first 40 min you meet a girl. A kiss should be fun and nothing special. I don't support negs in any way, I feel that they are super lame and lower your own stays as a man. The frame that you should set for a girl is that you are a fun guy who is super hands on, however, not in a weird way. Like taking her hand in a way as if you are trying to play the boyfriend.

I would suggest to never add a girl on fb, have her add you, it shows that she is investing time into you. Idk if you "game", if you do, that is what is causing her to lose intrest on second date. I suggest no more than 2 texts go by without proposing a meet up (in a fun way). Or if you don't want to meet up yet, don't text her. If she texts you that's great and text back, but always go for a meet up.