Last summer i hooked up with one of my friends and she is clearly a 9 possibly a 10. My whole life i have slept with medicore chicks except for last summer her and i had sex 11 times. After the summer she just wanted to be friends which we are but last weekend i tried kissing her and she flipped out and said we are just friends. I think i have ONEits(spelling). I can't get her out of my head, she is so hot compared to anything i have ever gotten.

Go pick up 10 other girls and that's either gonna make you realise she's nothing special, or she'll see that you aren't a loser and can have other girls, so it might make her interested, but don't count on it.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Well, there are two ways you could take this.

One- use Mysteries solution to the one-tis, which is sleep with a bunch of other girls until your one-tis is out of your mind and you find someone better. You said you were having trouble finding HB's. Where are you looking?

Two- if you really want this girl, than you have to be willing to lose her. One of the most powerful seduction techniques that a girl can use is the coquett technique. Basically, its push and pull, hot and cold, on and off. This will keep a guy latched on because he is now chasing something that he desires and always comes so close to getting what he wants, but than it is pulled back a little further.

In this situation, try making her jealous. Stop fawning over her, go out with other girls, and enjoy yourself. And since she is your new friend, you could even ask her advice about what to do with the other girls. IF she still has feelings for you, this should turn the tables and rekindle her desire for you. When this happens, play a bit before you give in, othewise the desire will be short-lived.

I suggest looking at The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. He provided a very good description about coquette and seiren seduction methods, and once you understand them, you can counter them.

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"If your not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space."

Thanks for the advice I will look into that book, I am currently reading Penetrating the secret society of a PUA. I think that I will start approaching other women while she is around. In fact i feel more confident when i am out in a group with her b/c since i have had her i feel like i can have any 8+ HB's.

Good plan!

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"If your not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space."

haha i knew that was straight out of the seduction book! It seemed like its intended for women even though the same principles apply. Still worth a read, but my favorite pua book by far is the attraction code by vin dicarlo.

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