| stop competeing with dudes, and start trying to sleep with women
you don't have to be ''the alpha male'' to get a girl to sleep with you dude,
high status = attractive
low status = unattractive
lets use highschool social status here as an example to how being the ''alpha male'' doesn't matter, although you should strive to be the best you can, you don't have to be THE BEST, to make something happen, if that were the case almost no guy would ever get laid, there would just be like 1 guy in every city that gets a line of women outside his door on the daily
alpha of a low status group = the guy that played magic cards in highschool and was the best at it, gets mad props in his social circle for being some pro online gamer kid, gets called by his buddies to play video games outside of school, meets up for yu-gi-oh tournements, doesn't get laid
beta of a high status group = isn't the coolest in the school, but runs with the most popular clique, still goes to all the best parties, still gets laid, still is likely to have a girlfriend
if the guy is cool to be around, just hang out with him, it will be fun, make a new friend
don't try to be better, just be you, bring value, if you are better, awesome, who gives a shit, it's subjective, just try to bang the girls you like and forget about being better then people, by default following your ego into your own head will lead to reaction seeking and needy behavior, this will lower your status cause you will suck more when you are in your head, plotting and schemeing of how to, when you should just KNOW at all times what you are doing, this will kill the fuck out of your charisma
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