Hi,
I've just registered here and would like to share with you one of my stories.

Basically, few weeks ago I've met this girl in another town in rather semi-formal situation. Something sparked and we moved onto 100% informal ground with some more people, exchanged phone numbers, facebooked each other etc.

During the next few weeks we seldomly exchanged text messages, aiming for a second meeting in a few weeks. When I was in her area the next time we spent brief time with some drinks and then moved to her place, where she offered me a place to stay that night, before I travel further. The cues seemed like good opportuinity to move it further but I didn't even go for a kiss, because somehow it just didn't feel right at that time. You know, sometimes you have that feeling that the SPAM is just a little bit too tense and moving anything further might seem a little bit forced. Now, this might be my overinterpretation, but I feel like both sides were interested in going with it further, but despite the few drinks, we still felt a little bit uncomfortable and unnatural. Plus both of us were travelling that day and were a little bit exhausted, which made that evening not the perfect one for a second meeting (and first of this kind).

Next day we went our own ways but were planning to meet on the same day, however due to force majeure we weren't able to do it (one issue on here part emerged and it was not a cheap way to say "I don't want to see you" but real issue that needed to be solved by her on that day). We've decided to stay in touch and since I will be in the proximity for a few days and in two weeks time will be passing through her town again on my way back home, I thought that meeting again in her area or her dropping to the place that I'm visiting currently will be a sure deal & text messages will continue, but suddenly our contact started to decline.

I feel really bad about this situation not because I seem to loose it, but because of the fact that it seemed that we have some kind of understanding and it was almost a done deal. I definitely fucked uped in some areas (could elaborate on that if it would help), some conditions were not especially fitting, but I really believed that there is some way to fix it. 

This particular case drives me so mad that I'm starting to do basic mistakes, that I'm aware of and that I'm usually telling other people not to do (eg. overtexting her, forcing the conversation when there is no common, natural topic, just to keep the contact etc.). Almost immediately when I left her town to the place where I'm now (which, as I mentioned before, is not that far) she stopped replying to my messages (that's where my overtexting and no-tipics started to happen), if not counting few rather forced.

I definitely omited some detalis, some of which might be an issue here, but I'm not aware of that, so please fell free to ask questions. I would really appreciate you helping me.