I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we hit it off right away. We met for a date about a week after getting to know each other online and i was on my game and we connected really well in person. I kissed her that night and from there we were talking for a little bit every day nothing crazy. We met up a couple of more times and our last date was to NYC which she was excited about days prior, we had a great time and seemed happy to be with me. Call her the next day (monday) cause we had been drinking and and wanted to see if she was feeling ok. she seemed weird, asked her what's wrong and she said nothing. Thought nothing of it had a good conversation and she said she would call me later and never did. I kept it cool an called her on thursday didn't answer but texted me saying she will call me which she did, had another good talk and mentioned possible plans for Sunday to go to the beach, she wasn't sure what time she wanted to go and once again she said he would call me and it's sunday and yet has contacted me. Is she playing games like hard to get, is she confuse with her feelings like have we moved too fast, has she lost interest in me an moved on and is afraid to tell me. I'm also not sure whether I should contact her or should I just let it be if she likes me enough she will contact me. I like her alot and wanna hang out I just wih I knew whether she felt the same

You actually say it yourself mate. If she likes you enough, she will contact you. If you want to know if she is playing games or not, if she felt the same or not, there is only one way: tell her.

Tell her how you feel and tell her what you want. If she really wants to be with you, you will get a clear yes. If she really doesnt want to be with you, you will get nothing or a clear no. Everything in between, i would call that manipulative. A sly way of saying no. Walk away. it hurts when you get the no, but it hurts even more to be not sure, to be lingering in yourself, trying to break into her mind. We cant tell you of she likes you or not. that is for you to find out.

good luck!

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