BACKSTORY

Saw this girl at club, approached her while shes dancing on podium thing put my hand out and said come dance.. she rejected me

SAW SAME GIRL at different rave/club.. she saw me dancing on stage with DJ's (DHV) I noticed her eye contact .. then I was giving a lightshow to someone and i turn around shes looking at me. I instintically grab her waists and was about to flirt didnt know what to say but before it got awkward she asked for lightshow

so we kept talking and we were both on mdma.. i brought her to the couch and we talked for 10 minutes and realized we have ALOT in common.. I believe we both felt very attracted and felt that connection..

we go on the dance floor dance together and keep talking (amazing conversation)
I grab her waist and start kissing her cheeks and she says she has a BF
I try not to get fazed by it and I dw about it too much

She then tells me its a secret relationship and no one really knows about him (could she have been lying)

I tell her "even though you have a BF we can still hang out at the beach and drink (we talked about it previously) and she agreed but she said "but remember I have a bf"

later were on the couch together and she says you will meet him one day (the bf)
and i made a joke "yeah when he comes to my house with a baseball bat"

she laughed and we kept dancing and talking till the rave was over.. we see eachother outside and we say our good byes and everything went amazingly


TEXT/CHAT PART

ME: Hey quick question, kind of important Red or Blue?

her: red

ME:okaay cooool [:)] just wanted to know so i can start making our wedding invitations, should probably get it out of the way
i was thinking blue but red works too [:P]

her:Haha oh god [:P] what are you talking about

me: wait I haven't proposed too you yet, oh my this is awkward [:/]

her: You're too late for that [:P] I have a promise ring [:3]

me: Tell your bf im a reasonable guy he can have you sunday - wednesday and your mine from thurs - sat [:D]

her :Hahaha he doesn't like to share [:3]

me: ahhhh shitt okaaay, well we'll figure something out haha

So how was the pooked car ride back with your mom? musta been hectic lmao



after this point things go downhill i start investing too much into the convo and she invests less I FUK UP

HERES THE BAD PART.. I accidently paste my entire convo with her right back to her .. and i had to tell her the truth so i said

LOOOL omgggg didnt mean to send you that... I told one of my girl friends i met a cool chick at Euphoria an she wanted to see if ur a bitch or if ur cool and what not so i sent her our convo Lmaaaoooo\

she said Lol oh ok, its fine

anyways we havent spoke sense its been 3 days and I really thought this girl was cool and we had alot in common what should i do? i was thinking of inviting her to the beach for sat?

My humble opinion....if she has a bf then back off....not right and not worth the hustle...she seems to like you so she is not trying to avoid you by saying she has a bf and I don't think its a shit test...if it is then its a stupid one...


My 2 cents....move on....keep in touch but move on...

Im just concerned cuz she said "its a secret relationship" and there is no indication of her dating anyone on her FB (yes im creeping)

Honestly I may have to move on even though its going to be tough I dont find a girl that fits my exact criteria often personality and physically shes my perfect 10

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