First off i am sorry this isn't in the relationship section i can not post there yet and appreciate your time.

Basically me and my ex broke up not long ago because of on and off fighting and i want her back as the story usually goes because she is worth the fight. I have been keeping minimal contact with her and attempting the 30 day no contact theory. But tomorrow would be our anniversary and i was planning on bringing back to her house all of her old love letters and random gifts in hopes to give off the vibe that im not bothered by the break up and that i have moved on, mind you we haven't been speaking for only 3 days now. is this the right choice ? should i return it and say nothing just leave it at her door unexpectedly for her to find whenever or will this give me a negative dhv. please help

If you want this girl back I would consider the on and off fights you had before. Unless they happened for a reason which is now gone then I wouldn't get back together with here.

Taking her staff back to her shows you moved on. This might work for you or against you so I wouldnt do it.

Difficult situation, I would ask her for a drink just to patch things up nad see how she responds but the info we have here is very little to judge if this girl is into you. How long were u in a relationship for?

dont take her back the stuff she gave you. that will come off as high schoolish and needy. if you really want her back is just tell her that you are not ready for it to be over and you still want to be with her. if she feels the same the f**k yeah you too will be going out again. if not, as standard as it sounds there are more fish in the sea. as great as she is maybe next week you will find one that is 10x better.

Don't take her stuff back. This very act shows that you still care. How to let her know you don't care? Don't contact her, don't get in touch with her.

Provide more detail on the breakup. Were your fights about anything substantial? Has it been worked out?

Don't go running back to her. It has to be the other way around. Your best bet would be to talk to other girls, go out with your guy friend and have a GREAT time. Wait for her to contact you. She most likely will. That is when the game can begin.

we dated for 2 and half years and basically the fights were stupid and over meaningless things, i felt i wasn't as desired as i was when we first started dating and she felt neglected she has said several times she still loves me and i have said the same. Also at a party recently after we had not talked all day she was all over a friend of mine he isn't to close but it didn't bother me too much it seemed she was doing it to get at me seeing as she would always look over at me then make a flirty move on him. I haven't contacted her yet and i removed her from all social networking stuff so i don't get my cage rattled by her or what shes doing im in a pretty emotional state so im just trying to get my shit straight before i make a move, but from the looks of it i should keep everything for now.

Also we ended on odd terms i broke up with her and made that mistake and wanted her back and we spent a week together on good terms not together but working things out and spending time she said she wanted time to her self and friends to think about things. Then after an emotional conversation we went over the time and space thing and i just stopped contacting her and that's when the party situation happen where i didn't acknowledge her or her behavior. oh and one last thing it just scares the shit out of me that she might be with another guy sexually i mean she was never that kind of girl but you never know what she could do to try and get over me