coming off as a "player", good or bad?

girls love "bad boys" and players seem to come across as non-needy. most girls have excepted the fact that they dont like guys that are too nice either. so when presenting yourself, is being a player a DO or DONT in your opinions

depends on the situation and the girl.

you must calibrate and adjust in real time.

but generally, women want the guy that is desired by many other girls, but chooses them for x reason. they want to feel that because of them, you "changed" and became faithful and settled down cuz shes "special"

so player vibe is good, as long you demonstrate that with her, you would be different, and would not play her.

again this is only what you demonstrate, what your true intent and desires are, are only in your head and only you can know that.

so you could be a player, and want to be a player, but when you see the girl you want, you show that with her you would be different. but you would stick to your player ways and eventually she will fuck off.

or you could be a player, but not truly want to be a player, and want to settle down with a girl. so when you see the girl you want, you show that with her you would be different, and eventually she becomes yours.