She left me one month ago, because I was getting really a boring person. I acknowledge that.

After that, I felt like awakening. I discovered this forum, I restyled, I graduated, I managed to conquer girls, I felt my self-esteem growing from 0 to 100% again.

I never called her back.

She texted me asking if I graduated, I replied some weeks after when I finally succeded to graduate, telling I did. Then, it leaded to a short text-exchange, and finally to a SIX HOURS LONG phone call.

In this phone call, roles were reversed. I was the alpha, happy, leading one. She was a whiny boring girl. I discovered that after leaving me she barely ate, she spent her time sobbing and crying, she couldn't move on. And she was surprisingly admitting I had become once again the man she felt in love with.

But she said again she wasn't in love with me any more.

Today, after me again arguing with her that I recovered from the boring sad person I had become to the healthy alpha person I am now, and instead she became the shadow of herself, a whiny little girl who nobody would like, she texted me telling me she should have never left me, but now it's too late to come back, it would be so difficult to restore everything as before.

I was surprised. I really didn't think to get back with her, but after her overtaking her pride and exposing her telling me that she regrets leaving me, I was caught by thoughts.

I need advice. I actually date 3 girls but no one really appeals me.
She is prettier than all 3, but now she's really too whiny and sad... perhaps if I come back to her she comes again happy and healthy?

Or should I avoid her because she is just confused and it wouldn't help getting her back?

Thanks!

She seems pretty confused and weak around now, i'd avoid her if i was you.

What you can also do however is if you want to be with her, show some interest maybe even an indirect suggestion that you two should get back together. However, if she keeps bitching about how it's too late or blah blah blah, just forget about it and don't get back with her. She also sounds like she could get obssessive/clingy now if you were to get back with her so if i were you, i'd just forget about it mate.

Do what you think is best and is in your best interest. take care man!

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Cute girls, coffee, and cheese was the lifestyle i chose.

News are those: she broke with me also because she liked a boy... but he was engaged and she didn't manage to obtain anything.

Yesterday she was all night in chat with me and then she told me this boy was leaving for holidays, he asked her out while she was chatting, but she prefered to stay with me in chat instead of seeing him though she wouldn't have any chance to see him for a while.

Today I wake up and find a text from her bidding me good day and asking what would I do today.

What should I think? How should I act? These are all IOIs big as houses, but what if she just doesn't know what to do?

Please do not even entertain the thought of getting back with her. I can't believe you're still talking to her after she admitted to leaving you for someone else.

My last girlfriend (25 years old) left me for a 19 year old boy with a GED, no job and no plans for college. I laughed at her and never spoke to her again. Why? Because there's a million other women out there that would claw their own uterus out to be with me and can discern the difference between success and failure. Adopt this mentality and things will clear up quite nicely for you. Life is too short to dwell on people who don't already think you kick fucking ass.

Actually I can't blame her.

I gained weight, becoming quite fat.
I started wearing random clothes, having no style. Sometimes she even found food spots on my clothes.
I was boring and tiring.

I can't blame her for liking another boy. She actually never went with him tho. Now I am back because I awoke, lost weight, regained style, regained self-esteem and charisma.

And now she seems to like me again as when we met. She did good to me, if she didn't break with me, I would have still been the boring and ugly guy I got.