I'm still kind of new to the non-AFC way of thinking so im hoping people can help me out. This is my second plate so far.

Ive known this chick for a while through mutual friends and her sister (who now lives overseas). She text me outta the blue asking how i was so i suggested meeting for a drink. We went and i felt a definite chemistry and some sexual jokes/inuendos (though she makes a lot of those anyway). There was no touching but she did bump my hand once and said sorry, i said thats ok. When i dopped her off she suggested doing it again sometime and said she had a good night.

So i want to call her and arrange another meet but want to make sure it comes across as a date because i dont want to end up in the friendzone or just someone to talk to (as i would have done in previous years). Reason im concerned is she doesnt have a lot of friends and i dont want to fill that role.

Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

Cheers

When i read that there was no touching man, an alarm went off. You NEED to go kino man,if you don't she wont see you as a potential primate who's ready to bang her, but as a friend. When you see her again, and as soon as you see her again, you need to kino right off the bat. Grab her and pull her in for a hug right when you say hi. Make it clear that you're not talking to her just as a friend, but are talking to her in the perspective of a man to a woman. You need to get dominant on this girl or youll get into the friend zone, get mixed signals from her inuendo jokes and think she might like you and then when you go to make the move, she'll give you the LJBF (lets just be friends) speech and youll feel like you got lead on.

Remember, man to a woman, not friend to friend. Take care mate!

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Cute girls, coffee, and cheese was the lifestyle i chose.

Personally i would take her dancing, lots of auto kino involve and you can check her level of interest a lot easier (physically).

Lots of fun and kiss close is easier early on the night.