what are these shit tests i keep hearinig all about? And i think i just failed one with a 9.

SHIT TEST—noun: a question, demand, or seemingly hostile comment made by a woman intended to gauge whether a man is strong enough to be a worthy boyfriend or sexual partner. If he takes the question, demand, or comment at face value, he fails and generally loses the opportunity to move forward in his interaction with her. Examples include telling him he is too young or old for her, or asking him to perform an unnecessary favor.

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Give details on what you believe you failed

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Oh then, i dont think I had one. I had been texting a girl last week. I texted her in the AM asking what she is getting into tonight, she responsed 8 hrs later saying shes going to an art show, i responded an hour later (bc i dont need to play games) saying sounds trendy, im working late. we should do something on sunday. she never responded. so i think she somehow lost interest bc i responded to quickly. i dunno, but we had a great first date the prior week and she told me to call her so i dont really know what to think.

I doubt she'd have lost interest just because you thought that you may have responded too soon. If you had a great previous date and she told you to call her, I see no reason she'd have lost interest over that. Give it a day for a response and then call.

You're right. Texted her yesterday " Something just reminded me of you". She responds 2hrs later "Hi! Aw that's nice, what was it? And how is your week going?" I have not responded yet. What are things I can respond that would make her want to see me?

Try "I was at the pet store and saw a fish staring at me through the tank...reminded me of you...lol"

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That's not a shit test.

Anyway the thing you've got to realize is that you've got to expect that any girl worth being with will be a elusive to a degree. This can be for a variety of reasons: she's legitimately busy (e.g, at the gym, working on something) and may either not have access to her phone or got your text but would rather respond when she can think of a response, it could also be a lack of investment, or that her phone just died...point is it doesn't really matter what the reason is, if she has even a semblance of interest in you being persistent - knowing what you want, and that you're willing to go after it and get 'it' (not insistent, which is needy) is an attractive quality.

One other very important thing to note. Girls' moods change like the wind. Often they'll either explicitly or implicitly suggest that they want to see you again, and often they truly mean this. However, as time passes and they become preoccupied with other things that mood will change and they may feel less inclined to hangout with you ("I don't really feel like getting all ready spending hours on my hair to go out this week, I feel so gross and bloated"). The thing is never take it personally! Instead, act as though nothing happened and aim to get them out again at some later point.

It's good practice to keep your options open - unless she's specifically told you to "fuck off" or that she's not feeling things you should never stop trying. At the same time, make sure you create other options for yourself, more irons on the coal so-to-speak so you operate from an abundance frame rather than a scarcity one.