thanks for coming to view my thread all ^^
so here's the thing, i've been doing direct game for like 1week in my college, i approach a girl, tell them they pretty, and so on ( like what sasha did ^^)

and out of that many i approach,i got only 1 number closed only -_-... so i just wondering whether gaming is can be done in asian country with asian culture.

P.S i live in singapore


thanks for viewin and hoping that u guys can gv me ur opinion..

thank you ^^

Yes, it's working. Just don't be too focused on the n-close. Focus instead on giving the girl fun. If you focus on fun first, the f-close will be a lot easier.

Btw, a few hours ago I just went official with an HB9. It's the result of direct game.

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I live in Singapore too. Day game is high risk but good rewards. Maybe you can change your approach?

Generally, women don't like to be complimented on their looks from strangers. They don't know you. So they have their guards up. More so for the more attractive women. They hear that a lot.

How about this...Hi. I find you interesting/You seem like an interesting person. I want to get to know you more. My name is...*shakes hand*.

With this, the girls would have this feeling of qualifying to you since you said interesting.

Hope it helps!

nice tips kibs, but for some reason, when i say "hi im ******* (while giving my hand)" they just say their name without giving her hand... so is this bcos of culture differences or whatsoever??

anyway we should hang out sometime kibz ^^

Yes cultural differences do play a part. However, I think it's not the main reason. All comes down to the fundamental reason : not all girls are the same. Some are more shy. And it's also maybe due to their peers. Some girls don't want to be seen being 'picked up' by their friends. They might be afraid that your target's friends will judge them.

Yeah sure thing man. Let's hang out. Where are you from BTW?

im from singapore kibz...
and it really sux to do without experienced ppl to accompany us

Yeah I know what you mean. A good mentor would be great. I only learn through bits and pieces and I only got into it not too long ago. Still learning.

it's not nessicarily the approach, it could be a many number of factors, the way you are presenting yourself, how you smell, body language, tonality

how you feel during the approach

the fact that girls are not giving their hands could be cultural, or it could simply be non-compliance due to dis-interest,

a first impression is made before you even speak, and often girls can't even remember what it was that you first said to them, when being direct the point isn't to get more girls to open up to you, the point is to get less girls to open up to you, so that the girls that do open up to you are more likely to have higher interest

think of it like a screening test, she wants to talk after you reveal your intentions and you feel there is some chemistry going on and some mutual interest, it's game on

you feel there isn't, then there probably isn't, it saves you time, approaching a new girl looking for interest that is already there is much more quick and easy then approaching a girl and trying to build interest, but then again it depends on your skill level, what sort of status you are projecting, as well as how difficult you find it to approach, and the volume of women you are able to approach in a small amount of time

the more you do this, the more you will quickly be able to tell the difference between shy girls who are nervous and giving you their stock responses, cause they feel skiddish and unsual during this rare event, and girls who are genuinely dis-interested

also, being in a good mood will help alot with direct game, it is not a transaction, as in, your cute! sex now?

it's more about expression, expressing how you feel, and showing the girl how she makes you feel, without a need for anything in return, all you want from this is expression and having a new experience, be patient with the sex, you can show that you want it, but avoid showing that you need it

GOOD LUCK

I practice at lot of direct game at my university too.
On the long-run, you'll get results, so keep going.

I'm from singapore as well and I'm in the midst of trying out what works and what doesn't.
(Actually, I've only done two over that past 2 days both cold approach, both day game.)
And I have to say the Singaporean women were actually more open to me coming up to them. Maybe its because it she was with a friend as compared to the other one which was a westerner whom was alone.
So far, asking for their opinions works more than say a self doing purpose like "My friend made a bet with me to..."
Now I'm planning to start with "Are you confident enough to receive a honest compliment? I like your overall look today, but I think your shorts don't compliment your thighs." Hah.
Anyway do you want to meet and do this together?