After a 2 months of going out two nights in the row on the weekends and getting 50% chance of kcloses for each night,but never a fclose, I am getting a little exhausted and depressed that my original plan of trying to find a nice girl is not going to be accomplished. Most of the time out I used for practice to enhance my timing, delivery and all the other aspects of pick up.
This weekend, out of desperation and fun, I hooked up with a girl that I did not have a desire for a second date. That lead me to feel depressed next morning, because I used her to just satisfy my craving for a kiss close.
I've been going out and practicing my pick up skills, which almost all the time was just natural game without any scripted lines or canned routines. I was only able to get random hookups and no desirable second dates.
My current plan is to try to get a girl friend and I need your guys help. I think I will only start going out once a week to just try to have fun. As to how to find a girlfriend, I have been on POF for about a month but haven't really used the service. I have a basic profile set up. I used POF was to use the "meet me" feature. In there, I have said yes to about 30 girls that I would like to meet, but I got no responses. Another thing that I messed around with was messaging girls. I have sent one, same message to about 15 different girls, no responses. Out of my entire POF timeline, I got two girls that wanted to meet me, but they looked less than average and I was not attracted to them physically.
Another way I guess of finding girls would be day game. I am completely scared of day game because it is a lot more stressful. I feel like it is so much easier to get the situation awkward than night game. Also I would not really know how to blabber about bs during day game.
In conclusion, I feel like these random hook ups and fun nights have not lead me to skills that I can acquire a nice girl to be my girlfriend. When I go out, most of the girls at the bars and clubs seem to be looking for a juice head or a rich guy. With my laidback, carefree personality that I have developed for myself, I can only game girls that are less attractive at the venue. High end girls would not open, assuming because of my looks. I believe though, if I am very proficient at day game, I can increase my chances greatly, but I don't know how I can make myself talk to attractive girls during the day. I am looking for other ways and suggestions of how to increase my chances of finding a girl that I would want to spend time together.

I'm just sharing my opinion man and nothing I say is gospel.

However reading your thread it sounds like you have the skills to pull the chicks to kiss you but you kinda stop there. You need to escalate with the whole situation.

I understand how validating a kiss can be but you shouldn't settle just for a kiss you need to look for ways to escalate the situation with the girl you're with in order to take her home.

Instead of investing only 15 -30 minutes on a girl and getting the kiss close. Continue the interaction and take her to different places around the club and area. "Bounce" her around. spend more time and don't be afraid to take bigger risks with interactions. Find a quite corner of the club and really make out with her and get her hot and heated so she is in a sexual mindframe and sex is just the next eventual step. If things are going well see if you can move her back to your house.

You sound like me and a whole heap of guys who can not really deal with online dating sites but have relatively better luck face to face. You could make one of your goals to see if you can invite a girl back to your place. Risk being creepy.

I take most my methodology from 60 Years Of Challenge. Escalation is key brother. don't be afraid to risk being creepy because it shows confidence.

Pick up isn't always the easiest thing brother but don't let it get you down, just take a moment to reassess yourself and find a new goal for yourself and continue on.

Good luck and feel better bout yourself bro!!!!